John Assaraf | Law of Attraction | Retraining Your Brain | TruthSeekah Podcast
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on today's guests my friend john
assaraf brother welcome to the show man
i'm glad we finally was able to do this
we've been trying to do this for months
and here we are man
hey it's great to be with you especially
you know end of year we're
you know wrapping up a challenging year
an exciting year a year of confusion and
stress
and opportunity and everything in
between so
great to be with you yeah it's a great
time to be alive interesting time for
sure
um and like you said you know wrapping
up the year wrapping up 2020 new vision
you know things becoming clear
um for me going into 2020 was huge for
me of of a year of
just going in with with the mind of of
breakthrough
and trying new things for the first time
i took my first flight
held my first retreat uh did my first
two weddings that i that i
um you know was able to to facilitate
and uh
just a bunch of new stuff really cool
and i went into
2020 with this and it just opened up so
much more we bought our house we spent
our first night in it last night
so much in 2020 was was a blessing for
me and i made the best of it so
wrapping up 2020 going into 2021
like how important is it to have you
know a good mindset and what are some
ways that we can
unlock the mind so that it serves
us and um you know people feel like a
victim in their own mind these days you
know
yeah a lot of people um feel
uh victimized by you know outside
circumstances for the most part
just not in your control and um you know
our brain has been
hijacked you know since february
basically of this year
you know with this obviously pandemic
how serious is it will i get it will it
kill me will it kill my
children my brother my sister my mother
my father
what will it do to my work my business
the opportunities the goals dreams i had
the travel i wanted to do
it's put an enormous amount of stress
and pressure
you know and change for a brain that
doesn't
like ongoing stress and ongoing change
and so unless you have the
learned skill of managing and then
mastering your mindset
your focus your awareness then you are a
victim of it
um but even in the times that we're in
you know the question i
asked even you know my students is um
are there people that actually got
healthier this year
are there people that started their
businesses and bought new homes this
year
are there people that their
relationships got better not worse are
there people that
you know wrote their book are there
people that became coaches are there
people that actually
took inspired action in spite
of the circumstances that we're all in
and the answer i think everybody knows
is of course
yes there are people who did that and i
invite everybody to ask what did they
do or what are they doing differently
than what you
might be doing is it possible
that both chaos and stress
is there at the same time opportunity
and calmness is there
because both are within us right yeah
and i love what you do and what you
teach
um you know uh it helps us get to the
core essence of
who and what we are and what if we
operated from that place
outwards uh and not allow the
circumstances in the
physical world so to speak to control
our thinking and our emotions
yeah and i know i mean that's a lot to
unpack there are techniques there's
there's ways to you know retrain the
mind and all this stuff and i want to
get into it with you
and and discuss your new book um but
where did this start for you like when
did this become real what age did you
find out that there was more to
you know to the mind and mastering it
and thinking on these
beautiful things versus getting beat up
by those thoughts and stuff
um so from the age of 13 um
to 18 i was involved in some small
hoodlum street gangs in montreal canada
uh selling drugs doing drugs doing
breaking and entries
and doing illegal things that i'm
certainly at 59 not proud of
but at that time i thought that's what i
needed to do because i left high school
grade 11
needed some money in my pocket to be
able to just survive
and so i just did things that i thought
i had to do and you know at that time i
was
feeling like i was a victim of the world
so to speak
and i had a chance meeting that my
brother set up
with a a gentleman and this gentleman um
was a very successful very grounded
husband
father philanthropist and it was
something that you know i looked up to
even the first five minutes that i met
him based on what my brother told them
and um he asked me what i wanted to
achieve in my life
and i said well i'd like to get a
full-time job where i make more than a
dollar 65 an hour i'd like to buy a car
i like to move out of my parents house i
was 19 it was april of 1980
just to put it into perspective and
he said well that's all nice and dandy
but what else do you want
to achieve in your life um who do you
want to help other than yourself how
much money do you want to make what kind
of home would you like what kind of
lifestyle like and the answer for me was
i had no idea
and so he gave me this document and it
was the 1980
goal setting guide and he said
take 10 minutes and just write out the
answers to some of these questions
and so i wrote out how much i wanted to
earn what kind of lifestyle i wanted i
wanted to
you know help certain charities and my
parents etc etc and travel and enjoy the
world
and then he asked me one defining
question that changed my life
and the defining question was this he
held up the sheets of paper that i gave
him
and he said are you interested in
achieving all of these things that you
wrote down that you have no
idea how to achieve or are you committed
as i said um his name was mr brown i
said mr brown what's the difference
he says if you're interested you'll come
up with stories reasons and excuses why
you can't or why it's not possible if
you're committed you'll do whatever it
takes
you'll upgrade your awareness you'll
upgrade your beliefs you'll upgrade your
knowledge your skills
and your habits and you will become
the type of person the identity the
character traits of the person that can
achieve every one of those goals and
dreams
so are you anxious are you committed he
said and i
shep sheepishly said well i'm committed
and he reached out his hand he said in
that case i will be your mentor
and i said to him wow i mean that's
awesome what's a mentor
and and this is true story exactly how
it happened he explained to me the
mentor is somebody who can guide you
on what to do to achieve your goals what
not to do so you don't fall flat on your
face
and a mentor somebody will give you
shortcuts tools techniques and resources
based on their experiences and that was
the beginning of me
seeing me differently through the eyes
of somebody who saw
more in me than i saw in me i thought i
wasn't smart enough because i left high
school grade 11 failed english failed
math
father was a cab driver lovely man
mother you know lovely mom
a seamstress but they didn't have any of
the things
in life that i had written on these
pieces of paper they certainly didn't
know how to achieve
those things and and so i had
um somebody who was willing to show me
the path
right so you know like a spiritual guru
or a
business guru and that was the beginning
of me
understanding that mindset is what
separates the best
from the rest and then i had a major
health issue
that really started to uh cause me to
explore my
spiritual practices
the and and what i mean there's so much
to unpack what you just said so many
questions
i have for you one of the the
interesting thing you just said
like a spiritual guru or a business guru
nowadays can we be both
of course you can um when i wrote my
first
new york times bestselling book having
it all um
i had the moniker um called the
spiritual
entrepreneur yeah and that's that's the
the tagline that i used to use
and people ask me why do you use the
spiritual entrepreneur and i said
that everything comes from this
spiritual side of our being
and i used to give people a visual i
said you know
a piece of ice in physical form
right or h2o hydrogen and oxygen in
physical form we call it ice
right we call it liquid in um
uh in when it's in a different state of
vibration
when we heat that up we call it air
ether or gas
right it's still the same h2o so
from my mentors
i have learned that everything comes
from the no thing every sort of nothing
but it's from the no
thing so at the atomic scale at the
nucleus
you know of an atom uh there's just
vibrating packets of energy called
quantum
and we are in this quantum field
in physical form and then we have a
brain
that can navigate between different
layers of this field of consciousness
and and so i believe that everything
emanates
from that but a lot of people are
working on the physical level of life
versus the spiritual
and um so we can we can unpack that a
little bit yeah i mean
do you start in the spiritual i mean i
do whether it's like a vision quest or
meditation or just kind of getting that
picture of what you want
uh you know just like your mental write
this down what do you want you got to
see the vision
write it down but then what's the
process because when it comes to
manifestation and things like that
like there's time that's involved the
seed time harvest like
it takes a while some of it seems
instant which i don't understand
some manifestation is like the next day
a door is open because you said yes
some it could take six months six years
even
like how does it start and how does it
evolve
so um in um my teachings and my books
and
to to my clients i have a program called
the exceptional life coaching program
i teach this model called sem s-e-m-p
and before i share with you what that is
i want you to think about this for just
a moment and
maybe we can you know have a little bit
of fun together with everybody who's
listening or watching um is it true that
everything is made up of energy
right sure and then if i i'm sitting at
the piano i heard you playing music and
i hit the a440 key on the piano
how is it that a chandelier 15 feet away
will start to vibrate there is no string
between the piano and the chandelier
and the answer is because it's in
resonance
right how does the tuning fork work
right so if you
play a tuning fork you probably have
them right there right how does
that work there you go right so so
you know where you have an instrument
right to create a vibrational
sound field that you know activate
certain things within our cells so let
me come back to manifestation
and is it possible that you know when
you have a radio in front
of you and you tune in to let's say 95.5
right on that station there's jazz and
if you go to 95.6
it's punk rock so
where is the punk rock while you're
listening to the jazz
it's there the the vibration the
frequency is
in the room you're in in the car you're
in and the tent that you're in
that's tuning in to the frequencies that
are already here
so with that said is it possible that
if i can harmonize
get into coherence the spiritual
side of my being the emotional side of
my being emotions is nothing more than
energy in motion and
the mental side of my being and
my physical moving it into action is it
possible that using this
semp model semp i can be
more in coherence and in harmony
with what it is that i want instead of
focusing my whether my mindset or my
emotions on what i don't want
if it's true that everything is energy
which i believe it is and we are either
in concert
or in chaos then
isn't my job one of my jobs to create as
much harmony and chaos and to
tune in to the frequency of abundance to
the frequency of health to the frequency
of financial security to the frequency
of love to the frequency of whatever it
is that i want
so you asked me about a process and
i have on my desk something called the
exceptional life
blueprint and over the last 40 years
i've created a process for myself and
clients that i take
through this of first getting clear um
for example
i'm known pretty much for you know
creating vision boards
if you ever saw the movie the secret uh
there's a story but i start off with
pictures and images of what i want but
then i convert that
also into you know one of the core
prayers that'll get me into coherence
what's my life's purpose what are my
um guiding principles what are my goals
for
for my business for health for charity
for for um
spiritual growth i take the time
to first get the vision and the goals
absolutely clear regardless of whether i
have the knowledge the skills the tools
and resources to achieve it
because if it's true that we are
spiritual
then all the answers tools resources
people are
here already so if i want to be
in resonance okay then
let's first use my brain and this
quantum
field properly let me tune my brain i
also have my
plastic brain on top of my desk let me
first
tune my brain into the specific
channels that i want
so that's part one and two or so of
what it is that i do and then there's
practices that i
have and teach to every one of my
clients to get
into coherence and harmony now what what
was the first thing that happened that
that made you
you know realized that this was real
right because
you know it's spiritual woo-woo all this
kind of stuff but when did it become
real when did you see something that
manifested or or or came into your
reality was it something that happened
that was like okay there's more
to this that i need to keep keep at it
and maintain this and go deeper
sure so a couple of things when i was um
23 i was working really hard to try and
make money and get ahead of the game
there was always too much month left at
the end of the money in my world when i
was younger so i was working really hard
and i ended up with
severe ulcerative colitis which means i
had ulcers in my colon
i didn't have any bowel control so i
would [Â __Â ] all over the place without
control whether it was in bed or in a
car or in a restaurant made no
difference if
if i had to go it was like oh holy
mackerel got it and
i started doing a little bit of research
on what's causing this forget about the
effect
yeah the two years i was taking 25 pills
a day
i was doing a cortisone enema in the
morning cortisone in them at night and
then
a sigmoidoscopy which is a a test every
month where they put
inserted a tube into my rectum to see
what's going on in my colon how far
along my colon this was it was pretty
serious and so i
um i heard a show on tv uh and they
talked about this word called
psychoneuro immunology big freaking word
all it meant is
the mind body connection and they said
that if you're in a state
of dis ease your cells vibrate in the
state of
chaos and dis-ease but if you can get
into a state of
at ease and coherence then you can
actually heal yourself
i go wow how do you do that so i did a
bunch of research and
and they said okay well you can you can
use affirmations
to change your vibrational state you can
use prayers
to change your vibrational state you can
do meditation to get into a state of
kindness i said
listen i'm in so much pain and
discomfort i'm going to try it all
so i said okay i'm going to start with
some affirmations and i have
you know this one affirmation i've had
for uh 37 years
that says my body and all its organs
were created by the infinite
intelligence in my subconscious mind
it created all my bodies tissues organs
muscles
and everything else within me it knows
how to heal me and make me whole and
perfect now
and that's a paraphrase of this
affirmation
and so every day i read that every day i
visualize that
every day i meditated on being healthy
instead of focusing on how sick i was
and five weeks after doing this every
day
while i exercised while i ate better
while i did
everything possible spiritual emotional
mental and
physical five weeks later
all my symptoms were gone
that was 37
or 34 years ago wow
so that was the beginning and then i
said okay well
if i can have more mental and emotional
control
and tap into this spiritual thing um
could i build you know my business and
career doing this can i
focus on a business can i focus on money
can i focus on being in
coherence spiritually emotional mentally
physically
um and from the age of 26 to 37
i built my own real estate company with
85 offices 1200 sales people doing four
and a half billion dollars a year in
sales
so holy [Â __Â ] yeah you can use it to
build companies and make money
and what i want to make sure that people
do not hear
is that all it takes is write down a
goal
meditate on it no no no remember
spiritual emotional mental
and physical okay in
the um proverbial law of attraction
everybody talks about there's one thing
a lot of people forget to talk about
and in addition to the law of attraction
there's the law of goya
that most people have never even heard
of
would you like me to share with you yeah
i've never heard of that by that name
anyway
actually the law of laws
and it's the get off your ass law
and do the right thing in the right
order at the right time
so if there are spiritual laws
let's understand those if there are laws
on mastering emotions let's understand
those if there's
laws or techniques to master mindset
let's understand those
and if there are certain things on this
beautiful blue planet that we
need to do in order to achieve the
success that we want
not forget that now we're in coherence
yeah
and and and and those two really have to
be in coherence right
because you you see people who work work
their ass off
and they're tired they're they don't you
know working their ass off in
in a in a field that they hate they load
they don't want to be there
but while they're there they're doing
good and they don't have the spiritual
aspect
and then you have spiritual aspect but
they don't have the goya aspect as well
so it's a
it really is a you know a balance of the
two right
yeah and and you know i i have teams on
my desks and all over my office is an
example
of um that i that i share said you know
have you ever tried to solve the rubik's
cube
and most people you know in your age
might have tried to solve it and very
few people have actually solved it on
their own
they could work for you know 10 years
and never solve it
and the question is why is it so hard
when it's solved
does it make a difference how hard you
work
to solve it and the answer is no there
are too many
possible moves to miss screw it up
there's actually
millions of different permeations and
moves you can make
so you can work hard every day for the
next
10 years and not solve this but you can
also hop on youtube
and in less than 15 minutes you don't
know where to turn
this where to turn and you could
discover the
algorithm to take something that is
complex
and hard and make it way way way
easier and so for every result that we
want to achieve
on this blue planet i'm going to
colonize mars
all the how to is already here so
if you don't know how to when would now
be a good time
to figure out the exact steps you need
to take
and then just take those steps that's
good
now what about doing the right thing
right the you know
you have the the chaos and the order
right
um what if you're trying what if you're
doing a lot of these steps but you're
creating chaos or you're doing it with
ill intentions even or you're
you know because people try to work
their way up the corporate ladder but
in a lot of that stuff you have to step
on people
you know you have to you know it's not
really the you know
the the it's not always i guess nice
guys finish last in many cases
but i say that to link it to what you
said about
your past and and you know being in the
gang activity
with and i want to use for example drug
dealers
with work ethic entrepreneurs
right they're they're you know working
smart they're working hard
but they're kind of like working against
themselves with
you know the the hustle and the work
ethic and the drive but if they
use all of those tools for the right
reasons
you know it would be something that you
know that that would benefit humanity
that would be able to benefit their
families or build something
that has residual income that worked
while they wasn't there
all of that kind of stuff but how would
you like if you looked at the mindset of
like
somebody who's selling drugs and the
work ethic the drive the
entrepreneurship
seems to be there but it seems to be off
for some reason
yeah so so a couple things you know it
intertwines
a couple of areas of um
my studies and my research and that is
you know our perception
equals our projection our perception
equals our projection so
i don't believe you have to be immoral
or do illegal things to climb up the
corporate ladder
my belief is that nice guys finish great
um so and there are nice guys that don't
because they don't do the right thing so
listen just like we can use you know a
microwave to
cook your food you can use a microwave
to cook a human
just like we can use a knife to slice
you know a tomato you can use a knife to
kill somebody
so in the spiritual realm that we talked
about earlier
um you cannot have an up without a down
and inside without an
outside a positive without a negative
it just doesn't exist it exists in
perfect order and harmony
in this field of all potentiality
so what we know is
if we want to dive into the world of
quantum physics as well everything
exists in the quantum level as a wave
and a particle
and then our focus collapses that wave
into a probability instead of a
possibility so if your perception
okay is that the people who get ahead
are screwing everybody
all you see are the people that are
getting ahead screwing everybody
uh if you believe that there's people
who get ahead by helping others
then that's what you see and find and
the truth though at the higher
level of awareness is both exist
and so which are you going to focus on
climbing the ladder
professionally with love and kindness
and by
giving and and becoming more um or
by methods that you're not proud of for
yourself so
when when anybody does
um something that's illegal or immoral
knowingly
knowingly then it's a belief
system that's driving the behavior
so they believe that this is what i must
do it's either because
i have a low self image of myself i
don't feel i'm good enough smart enough
worthy enough to achieve it therefore i
have to apply these strategies to do
that
and what happens is when you actually
can show somebody
do you realize what you're actually
doing and the
and the boomerang effect that you are
having on your own life
energetically um do you realize that you
are made from um the
the exact same thing that everything in
the universe was
made from you everything about you was
was created in the furnace of a star
uh do you realize that that which
created you
is you it's within you if you take a
bucket of ocean water
and you move it 5000 miles inland you
still have a little bit of the hole
so whatever it is that created you and
me and everything else
it must be in you it must be in me
and if that is omnipotent omnipresent in
all places
at all times then there's no
lack there's no scarcity there's no
limitation except the ones that i impose
on myself either because of conditioning
or because i choose to deliberately
um you talk about how everything's
already out there
most of it's in a book there's nothing
that has uh
you know that there's no trial there's
no tribulation there's no
work ethic there there's no how-to that
that hasn't been written or is on
youtube
um when i started doing podcasting and i
was wanting to take it to the next level
like i went from listening to podcast uh
like the joe rogan experience or coast
to coast am which i loved
and i started listening to podcasts
about
how to podcast what microphones to use
how to render your audio what is the the
the uh
you know the uh the bit rate of the
audio and
what which is the best app what service
to use and what
which ones to stay away from i started
like learning all this stuff for free
like it was out there for free on
youtube and on other podcasts and stuff
um when it comes to with with that out
there
anything you want to want to learn you
can look it up i i
fix my my truck on if i would have took
it to a dealership or
a mechanic they would have charged me a
couple hundred dollars and literally
tighten
one screw that i found out how to do it
on youtube everything's out whatever you
want
to to learn and study with your business
and you don't have to reinvent the wheel
that's right people are trying to
reinvent the wheel i don't want to do it
like they're doing it i don't
i don't i want to do it differently it's
going to look different um
with with all the resources out there at
our literally at our fingertips on our
smartphones of
starting a youtube channel or starting a
podcast on whatever you're interested in
whatever you're into
there's the ability to monetize it
market it and give people
value that you in turn can can get
you know income back from it and people
will take care of you
and help you get what you want as long
as you help them get what they want
with that being said with the internet
and then hiring a mentor
someone one-on-one because usually to
hire
uh someone who's going to teach you
everything that they've learned and take
you through these steps
and not everybody can afford a mentor
right off the bat
but many of those mentors like myself
like you
we have interviews we have a lot of free
resources we have
something that maybe even in a book or
something
like that right that that people can get
for for free
even um what would you say to someone
who
you know who's thinking about hiring a
mentor and then the other people who
would love to but they just can't afford
it to get to the next level
sure so i have a variety of different
thoughts on it right uh so every one of
us
i have tons of free stuff on youtube on
facebook on instagram um
i have you know a mentoring program at
39.60
a month or 297 for a whole year
um where i'm sharing hundreds of hours
of of
training people but that's set aside um
i want people to think of being
resourceful
in the absence of resources so that's
number one
but then at a higher level than even
that
if you are looking at any result you
have in your life let's say you're
looking at your bank account and there's
not enough money there
one of the keys to using your
billion dollar brain better
is to teach yourself that if you look at
your current
circumstances and you allow your
emotions
and your mindset to go ah [Â __Â ] look at
this i don't have enough money in the
bank i'm not making enough
i'm in debt i can't even pay for my
carton of milk today
yeah as soon as you look at that and
feel that
then you're thinking about what you feel
and you feel what you think about an
unbeknownst to you you are recreating
reinvigorating re-enforcing
a pattern of lack and limitation and
scarcity
when abundance exists and so here is
something that you may want to do and
understand is any result that you're
currently
looking at that you like or don't like
all results
in the physical world are effects
you're looking at what you thought about
and felt and did in the past or
didn't do you're seeing the result on
that piece of paper on your mobile phone
or
in the mirror yeah so if you want to
make
100 certain right
that in the next week 30 days
60 days 90 days you don't look at that
paper in the mirror or that relationship
and say [Â __Â ] it's still there it's still
happening
you have to alter yeah okay
the thought process and the emotions and
the behavior
starting right now and i'm gonna
say this again is if you keep collapsing
the same wave
okay at the energetic level with your
thoughts and emotions
and follow through with your behaviors
you're going to keep achieving the same
results
and you know i shared with people i said
if if you all of a sudden found out that
you know you woke up in the morning you
had
like the worst freaking toothache you've
ever had then your
your whole head was just pounding uh and
you didn't have any money in the bank
um and you had to go see a dentist would
you find the money
and almost every says well yeah if i had
a big toothache and i had to go to the
dentist i need to pay them cash because
i don't have any credit i'd find the
money
well what if you found the money for
something that's going to change your
results
why not have the same resourcefulness
and
pain on stopping the disruptive
destructive patterns if you have the
same commitment
to achieving success as you do to
getting rid
of a nasty toothache you will have
more than enough resources that's so
good
um it's it's it's the same mindset right
it's
it's how bad do you want it is that it
yeah
well it's how bad how committed are you
here's what i want people to to
understand
i'm obviously showing a plastic brain
here right
um but do you have any idea of
how much money has been spent to try and
recreate the human brain
i mean hundreds of billions of dollars
have you ever considered that you
already own
something worth hundreds of billions of
dollars
but you just don't have the user's
manual on how to use it
you've got the most sophisticated you
know
rocket ship computer in the world at
your disposal
and you don't even know how to turn it
on or maybe that's all you need to do is
turn it on
but you don't know more than three or
four of the buttons and with just a
little bit of what i call
inner size you can have the keys to the
kingdom
how i mean how hard is it because like
you know a lot of people think oh man
there's a lot of stuff i got to do you
got a lot of techniques i gotta
i gotta relearn these these things is it
is it made simple for us is it is it
practical
of course it is you know so you know in
addition to our brain right if you took
away
your face and my face and your glasses
and your beard
and we just took away our skull and our
skin and all that stuff we had this
organism called the brain with a nervous
system connected to the brain stem
right flowing down my arms and my back
um and you know
light allows um light comes in through
our eyes and sound comes in through our
ears
we've got this highly sophisticated
organism
with uh circuits that turn on and off so
stress circuit turns on or off
motivational circuit turns on up
spiritual circuit turns on enough we
have
networks that are connected and certain
things turn on or off the networks
so we have you know fear for example
is one of the uh big parts of our
nations we have a
a nervous system one that's wired
millions of years of evolution to keep
us away from
real or imagined danger like a
saber-toothed tiger will fight it
you know we'll run away or we'll freeze
to stay quiet so it doesn't see us
you know or we have this other nervous
system called the parasympathetic
nervous system
that allows us to be calm so we can
respond
to the challenges you know that are in
front of us
and i call those the the einstein part
of the brain
and the frankenstein part of the brain
and that's kind of like the gas
and the brakes of your car if you don't
know how to use the gas
and the brakes in your car um trust me
you can't drive
so you have this brain you have these
circuits that you can learn to turn them
on or off on command
you have the ability to upgrade your
knowledge and skills
and here's what's going to happen for
for people i think this
will ring true is in life right jim rohn
had a wonderful quote he said
you're either going to pay the price of
discipline or you're going to pay the
price of regret
right he says discipline weighs ounces
regret waste tons
and i like to back that up with you're
either going to master
disappointment and feel comfortable
disappointing yourself over and over and
over again
or you're going to master change
one of the two and change requires
a little bit of energy and a commitment
to okay
i'm gonna master this game and um
mastery is available in the game of
health and wealth relation career and
business
because all the information is already
out there it's like if you want to
become a martial artist
the information's there the teachers
there if you want to learn how to be a
really good rubik's cuber or a yoyoer
you know the how-to is there
but the how-to um has levels to it right
you've got
what i call the kindergarten stage where
you just play around
at it you got the grade school where you
learn a few things you got the high
school a little bit more competition
university well a little bit more
competition there than the pros then the
all-star
then the hall of fame right so there's
different
layers for health wealth relations
career business finance etc
all of which are available to every
human being
that's committed yeah almost like the
rubik's cube thing like there's people
who are doing it blindfolded right
that's the next level
behind their back that's the next level
with their feet
and with their hands at the same time
in the air that there's a guy who that's
doing it
in the air three of them in the air
juggling
and he's doing it with two hands in the
air
it's mind-boggling that's how good you
can get
at the level of mastery but first let's
start off with
let's just learn some of the
fundamentals first gotta go get one
first right
yeah and if you want to learn the rules
you get one go to youtube
yep that's good stuff it is practical
the spirituality
is practical it all comes back to the
mind right because again when we're
talking about
the secret or the law of attraction and
is it is it just
retraining your mind on how to see these
frequencies or see these
holes in the matrix things that are
already there i feel like we're just
retraining our mind to look for
opportunity that is there let me show
you something
it's going to take me 10 seconds to get
something that i
show and i'm going to show it to you
in real time i'm going to get it on my
on my mobile phone
and i'm going to ask you if you've ever
seen this logo
okay have you ever seen this logo got it
yes
fedex for those who are listening so
fedex for those who are listening
can you tell me how many times you've
seen it in your lifetime
i'm going to take you through a couple
little things how many times you've seen
it 10 times 100 times
over yeah for sure so you've seen it can
you tell me where the arrow is in the
fedex logo
in the i don't know
if i'm not looking at it okay so
can you see the iron now got it got it
do you see it
did you see the arrow yep there's an
arrow in the logo you didn't see it when
it's been there
since you've been born
i wasn't looking for it didn't didn't
notice it
it wasn't looking forward and your brain
didn't have
cells of recognition to be able to
quickly get it
do you know where the tire is that's
coming towards you in the fedex logo
no no take a look at the d and look at
the tire coming at you can you see that
look at the circle and the tire right
there okay
was that always there yep i'm going to
give you one more
uh your brain wasn't trained to look for
it do you know that
there's a little measuring spoon like a
baker's spoon to measure flour or
sugar have you ever seen that not in the
logo haven't
look at the bottom of it now yes i see
it now there you go
so what did i just do number one is i
primed your brain
to see something that's already there
that you always deleted or distorted
because hey
there was no need for it i get that
right but b
our brain deletes and distorts anything
that isn't already part of our map of
reality
so that little trick
right yeah is just a way that i can
show you that you're not seeing all of
the possibilities you're not hearing
all of the spectrum of the sound uh
spectrum
and you're certainly and me too not
doing everything possible to achieve
our goals and dreams so you know when we
when you and i first talked off air
earlier you know and and and you you're
talking about meditation
right meditation actually puts our brain
in a state
of self awareness but it also
helps us quiet the noise so we can
actually be better observers that's
great
better observers of what's happening
within us
and also better observers that's what's
happening
outside of us and so you know meditation
is one of the techniques that's you know
one of the most underutilized techniques
that
really connects you to this field of
everything which then gives you the
knowing that i
am part of everything and everything is
part of me
and now can i train my brain
to help me see the things that are in
line with the
financial business goals music
book whatever it is that i want if it's
already here
then awareness is what's going to give
me choice and choice is what gives me my
freedom
that's awesome i love it um and so with
that with that same
uh mindset of seeing what's already
there but but it's been at the whole
time you just didn't know it
i often talk about the game of life
and it comes with rules and for me these
rules are universal laws even
you know and and there's many but we're
playing this game but we
haven't read the rule book we don't know
that there are these these laws on
how to use your brain how to use your
mind positive thinking and all of this
stuff is is
into universal law would you say that
something similar as well we're playing
the game of life but don't know
don't know the rules to this game sure
in my
first book new york times best-selling
book having it all
i actually talk about universal laws
and not not um you know things that we
think are happening you know we know
this is how the universe operates and
then
we are in uh the universe
nature and us are one and there are the
laws of
nature right so i mean you know the only
way that this thing is not falling down
the law of gravity obviously
is if i put something in you know you
know uh to block it right here
um so there are certain laws and
principles that are
um foundational to our life
and when we understand what those laws
are and we
apply ourselves within those laws
achieving the success that we want
becomes effort less not
effortless effort less not stressless
but stress less when we are
in harmony and incoherence think about
this
um do you play music too i see uh i
think a good time right
so when you play music right if there's
another person playing music with you
there's effort that you're putting into
it but if you've practiced then it's
effort
less and if you get into harmony with
the other musicians
you create a coherence wave
right that intersects and the two or
three or four of you
create magic together you amplify the
vibrational field by being
in concert i'm going to challenge
everybody who's listening
to get into spiritual emotional mental
and physical
concert and you have the most powerful
bio computer
you don't have to pay for it it's called
your brain just
learn a few techniques to use it better
man john i enjoyed this talk you brought
so much
content you brought so much quality
and help to this conversation to my
community thank you so much for hanging
out with me your new book is
entersize the new science to unlock your
brain's
hidden power it's available at amazon
all of your other stuff where's the best
place to go to check out your work and
what you're bringing to the table
um sure so my company is called
myneurogym.com
that's the website myneurogym.com i'm
on instagram jonasrap i'm on
i've got a facebook fan page uh i'm on
twitter as well
and linkedin and youtube so uh
lot lots and then obviously you can find
my books on amazon
john thanks so much for hanging out with
me really enjoyed this talk man we'll
have to do it again thank you so much
for hanging out
many blessings all right john have a
good day
john assaraf ladies and gentlemen good
stuff
listen renew your mind
change the way that you're thinking get
rid of the stinking thinking
if you change the way that you look at
things
the things that you look at will change
speak life to it positive affirmations
listen
change his life he believes in it i
believe in it um
we listen to a lot of you know christian
worship music and just positive music
man
and it really helps with
training your brain you know
having those melodies in your head of
positive affirmations that
god in the universe and the angels even
the demons are
for you everything is for you talk to my
buddy tave we went out for lunch the
other day
and i told him this this word that i'm
just infatuated with
the word is pro-noya we talked about
this on the pr podcast
several times pronoia what does that
mean
well we know what paranoia means and to
be paranoid
is to think that everyone's out to get
me
the universe is out to get me
everything that i do a dark cloud
follows me i can never do anything right
nobody likes me
all i see is dead ends you know
paranoia people are coming for me
i'm going to be destroyed whatever it is
like these negative affirmations that
you have in your head
have made you paranoid pronoya
is the reversal of that it's to
understand that
god and the universe are out to
bless you they are for your greater good
not just that but everything is here
for your greater good your trials your
setbacks are a
setup there is greatness inside of you
there is greatness
in front of you behind you though a
thousand may fall at your right
ten thousand at your left no harm shall
come nigh thy dwelling
understand universal laws and that god
is for you the universe whatever you put
out is coming back to you
if you put out negativity if you put out
chaos and confusion
guess what's coming back chaos confusion
if you put out blessings righteousness
um affirmations alms helping people
being a friend when when you see someone
in need
like that's coming back to you when
you're in need
it's coming back to you you're going to
have a friend when you're when you're
helping somebody when they're starting
their
business or their ministry or your
friend puts out a book
buy it because guess what when you put
out your book the universe is going to
make sure that somebody comes and buys
buys yours for me it's the same people
in my community when they put out
stuff i buy it hands down no questions
anybody that i know
that's in my community they put out a
book i got uh i
wish i could show these off but my
friend roy um
roy peterson just put out these flash
cards i got him in my vehicle they're
these beautiful positive
affirmation uh flash cards and he's
been supporting for a long time and i've
seen he put that out there was no
question
didn't have to check the bank account
listen 25 bucks boom i got it
listen when you support people support
shows up whatever you put out
is coming back to you it's coming back
to you
so make sure that you're doing good
deeds make sure that you're doing
good things i'm going to open up the
chat if anybody has any questions
anybody wants to cover anything i see
the questions here
see the we do have the zoom open for
those of you who are patrons who are
supporting
you can get in and ask a question uh via
video chat if you like as well so that
is available now
and um let me see if i can find this
little video
um let's see
i'm gonna try to find this video and it
may pull my
well i don't know how to find it but i
remember this um
my wife could tell me aaron
aaron i'm gonna call her in here there
was this video and i'm thinking of
hey what was it what was the name we're
live what's the name of that
video of uh episode of my little pony
with the little elf that had the the
cloud following them
and it was raining the jinx
on my little pony
okay so he was jinxed
so he was jinxed with this cloud to
follow him around
and it was always doom and gloom and
nothing could work out for him did they
have
how did that episode end did he ever
turn around or he just saw
beauty in it how did that end i think he
ended up just
learning to cope with it he learned how
to cope with it
he was jinxed anyway i can't find
anything on youtube with it how you
spell the same wobegon
w-o-e-b
uh-huh okay okay
whoa be gone got it so we'll be gone i
don't see nothing on youtube but i
remember that episode
that little uh troll or whatever thanks
babe
anyway he had this cloud wobegon my
little pony wikipedia
let's see if i can show the screen me
and webb what screen are we showing
there is the screen there for those of
you who are watching i don't know if
y'all remember
my little pony if you grew up in the 80s
you probably remember it
that's a picture of him he always had
this little cloud that was following
around
and there's a lot of people who who feel
that way and that's not the truth man
that's not the truth you have the
ability to
change your surroundings change your
circumstance
and make something out of nothing but
i often wonder you know
is this for everybody because people
you know we're definitely not built the
same obviously if you work the system it
will work for you
any of these systems it works if you
work it
you know we have people who who kick
drug addiction and they're in a a
and a lot of people say a don't work a a
is not of god
a a is universal religion a lot of
christians hate
a.a because it's not a christian but
guess what guess what
it works for you if you work it
church you know they even incorporate
like well
celebrate recovery like a lot of aaa
stuff
in the churches now why because it works
it works a lot of those
a lot of those procedures take you
through
similar steps even a biblical
step of forgiveness forgive yourself
forgive those that you have wronged
forgive those
those people who have wronged you make
amends like all of these things which
are biblical
truths hoponopono thank you
i'm sorry forgive me like all of the
these
these modalities if you will that are
here to help you
choose one and work it there's no reason
that this stuff should work for me and
it doesn't work for you
that's not it god is not a respecter of
persons that
it only works for some people some
people are special their situation works
out listen if you're looking for
it it's going to come to you but you got
to do the you have to do the work
you have to do the inner spiritual work
obviously it's what we do
but what's when that the alchemical
process is when that
spiritual alchemy is when it transforms
to the next level
and it's when you're able to turn ether
the mind when you're able to turn
thoughts
into matter every move is a calculated
step
we've been working on this for a long
time nothing comes overnight
you gotta stick with it consistency is
key
you have to stick with it you can't
start and stop
um i was talking to another friend the
voice stephen cook the other day he was
talking about
some hip-hop artists that he used to
listen to back in the day and they were
going pretty hard they were getting a
lot of views and
had a big movement and this was man five
years ago
four years ago where are they now he
said well i think most of them quit
i think they most of them quit he said
they tried so hard and they didn't make
it so they just gave
up you got to stick with it
give up nah how bad do you want it
give up no keep going
you gotta you gotta make sure you gotta
choose the direction
choose which way you wanna go again
the mentor thing find people who's
already doing it
pick their brain listen to their
interviews
you know if you have something that you
want to do again spirituality find
somebody that that you respect who is
you know that you want to not you know
i'm saying
uh fasting yourself after but if they
got things that are working for them i
want to know about it whether it is
spiritual whether it is financial
relationship wise you got a lot of
people out there who
they aren't in relationships they're not
married and they're giving relationship
advice to married couples hold on let me
see your fruit of your marriage
let me see the fruit and then you can
speak on it find somebody who's doing it
and doing it right and learn from them
if you have to you know again pay them
to uh so that you can you know so that
they can be your mentor
listen there's so much that that can be
imparted there's so much that you can
learn
but and i've said this with my with my
path of the healer course that everybody
just
we just went through was amazing i
enjoyed it i'm seeing everybody step out
in different
areas in their life and and they're
seeing so much breakthrough and stepping
out things that they
never thought that they would do after
this eight week course
they're stepping out into it and the
interesting thing of something like that
is it's behind the paywall
like to to to really get that side of me
and to get
my attention for an a to go eight weeks
through this material
with you and to have it behind the
payroll paywall
for me all of that stuff that's in my
course
is sprinkled throughout ever throughout
this podcast there's almost
400 episodes and i don't think there's
nothing that i haven't mentioned
so you have to listen to every episode
and take notes and write this stuff down
and you can get it
you don't need it but if you want to
work one-on-one
hands-on and develop in fashion you
gotta get a coach you gotta find
somebody who is doing it
pick their brain get with them consume
their content
and obviously you know people watch my
pod my podcast people hire me
to help them with their podcast people
hire me with branding and intros and
logos and
transitions and having having it look
beautiful and it's worth it
why because you find somebody who's
already doing it and you hire them and
get them to show you how to do it
all of it's on youtube you might have to
watch a thousand videos
that's a lot 100 that's a lot 50
and then try trial and error listen man
like
you gotta as long as you're helping
people
as long as you're helping people get
what they want and so in my case a
beautiful podcast
a professional intro a professional
overlay make them make it look good as
long as you're helping people get what
they want
god the universe will make sure that you
get what you want
that's universal law i didn't make that
up
uh it's in in a lot of who who uh
i'm not sure i think it was zig ziglar
who who coined that term but
uh really cool interview today with uh
john assaraf
um his company that he keeps like he
you know runs in those same circles of
people that i i'm teaching a lot of
their content even with uh
bob proctor who is somebody that i
consume a lot of his content on
success and on manifestation and the law
of attraction and
all of those guys have were in the movie
uh the secret
john was in that as well uh he was in
the secret uh
the power of a vision board my wife
meets with her
sister i believe it's once a month and
they have a scrapbook but it's a planner
and so they plan out their goals and
their dream they check one another okay
how are you
what are you doing to achieve this what
steps are you taking where you are and
literally like they're accomplishing
their dreams they're writing their
dreams down
they're writing their goals down i've
got my papers for two years ago and
literally
i think three years ago what my goal was
to
be able to put my family in a house
and last night we slept in our new home
for the first
first night it took it took that
manifestation took two years
three years actually it's taken a lot
longer than that right every move is a
calculated step and everything
i do is to be able to have this desired
outcome so but you got to have a vision
where there is no vision the people
perish
get a vision get a goal get a dream
write it down
make it plain make it easy so that those
who hear it so that those who see it
may run with it run with it who is the
you you gotta run you gotta remind
yourself
i've always talked about how
those who are very creative those who
live in the einstein brain they have all
these ideas coming
all these ideas coming to you and they
get started
they get started on a podcast they get
started
on a website they start branding it they
start spending money they
they spend four weeks on it you know
they're just putting in in work and
they're they're ready to launch but just
before
self sabotage kicks in for many
different reasons
but the reasons that you had another
idea
oh what i can do this i like what he's
doing let me try that
and they'll scrap everything that
they've been working hard to do four
weeks been working on this for four
weeks
nothing i mean longer than that people
jump ship and start something else
and i and i say those who are creative
those who who
um just have so much vision that you
allow it to pull you out of your present
moment and
this thing that you said yes to that you
were going to develop
it would work if you work it
many friends jump from job to job to job
to job amazing people
but their consistency sucks their desire
to see it through
to continue to work at it when times get
hard when another idea comes when it's
not paying yet
you'll jump to something else that you
think will pay quicker
and these are a bunch of mlms that
happen this way
multi-level marketing you got people who
man you you name it essential oils cbd
like if i get you to sign up i'll make
money off of you affiliate marketing all
of this stuff people get started in so
many
you have those friends come to you and
they'll try to sell you stuff and get
you to sign up with all of these great
i did they're all great ideas like every
single affiliate marketing
thing with like whether it's weight loss
supplements whether it's uh
you know whatever uh cbd essential oils
like those are the main ones right now
um health products they're all good
every single one of those but those
people don't stick with it
they don't see and they don't see
immediate results and we know that
to be successful to have longevity you
need to focus on
delayed results delayed results
let your results come to you later
content is king
put something out it's going to pay you
tomorrow when you're sleeping it's going
to pay you
people are buying your medications
people are buying your courses people
are listening to your content
there's ads on it you're getting paid
around the clock
i'm giving you the game anyway it's out
there
it's for you to do it we can put it out
there we can tell you how to do it and
you still won't do it
this ain't for you it's for that other
person who's like looking for those ways
to be successful
to find ways for their dreams their
visions their
goals hopes to manifest and if you do
the work
it'll work for you don't envy nobody
don't get bitter
which many do you got to understand that
there's people who who who look at what
i'm doing and they they're envious of it
to be straight up with you they're
envious of
my marriage the envious of my career
they're envious that i get to wake up
every day and work on music or interview
amazing people i built this
i built it i'm still building this this
isn't overnight
this didn't come overnight nobody gave
me this one no opportunities in front of
me i
created them and you have to create them
you have all the tools right here where
you can do it youtube
the world is at your fingertips your
cell phone
and i was talking about this the other
day like um
a lot of channels on youtube
that have a lot of subscribers and a lot
of people into it like
their quality is not even good they're
just using a cell phone and they're just
talking to the cell phone or showing you
videos
there's this one lady who just and i
just seen her the other day and this is
an example she like films the sun with
her cell phone
and shows you
images of cloaked ufos around the sun
these fleets of ufos that are around the
sun
i know i know it's out there but that's
what she does quality is bad
pictures are bad hard to make out if
that's even legit
but i mean she'll go live and there's
hundreds of people
watching this old lady point out uh
ufos with her cell phone footage and her
and her
camera the quality is bad it's not up to
par
listen whatever you're passionate about
there's people who out there who want to
watch it
you're not the only one who's passionate
about it you may have to be vocal you
have to uh
make your own lane but you have all the
tools out there if you got a smartphone
and you have a a brain a know-how that
you could train your brain
for success come on man
come on help people give if you're
helping people they're gonna come
they're gonna get it do how to's
what do you like to do and then do how
to's on it
do you like to you like to build
websites
how to install a plugin how to find a
domain
how to this how come on man and then you
can and
well there's no money and i'm not you
know i can't get any money from youtube
yet
affiliate marketing affiliate marketing
i'm and people are buying people are
spending money
and are they spending money with you or
not if you help you could do a video
on a review and let's just
there's so many there's so many
affiliate marketing things like
you could do a review on a computer and
literally i just bought a new computer
tower and i'm watching tons of reviews
and in each one of those reviews
on these products if you go to amazon
and you click that link to buy it
the person who made that video gets a
kickback because you went to
amazon or whatever website through their
link
affiliate marketing there's people who
make thousands of dollars
thousands of dollars on affiliate
marketing
every month just by looking at a product
and doing a review alpha brain check it
out alpha brain is amazing i love it
it's a good product
check it out click the link in the
description to
get a bottle 10 off guess what if you go
buy it
boom i get 20
but the bigger the the item is whether
it's computers or technology which a lot
of people are doing that's a that's a
big um
it's a big investment it's a big ticket
item
another friend of mine uh tarek talk
bibi he's one of my coaches
but he told me he and i got him set up
with the podcast
and he did me a review and he talks
about this in the review but he talks
about how
when i helped him set up his podcast and
then
he's interviewing people who have
affiliate plans he's getting
uh healers on who have their own courses
who charge
you know a lot of money for a one-on-one
session to to book them in a session or
book them as a mentor
but they have their referral link set up
that if you go
if you click the description of the
interview that he did he has his own
referral link
because he talked about these people
because he sent them that way
he he made 400 bucks by interviewing a
lady
and someone wanted a session with her
because they fell in love with her their
work or
they really resonated with it so that i
want a session with this lady
as long as they click that link that was
in his description you get
and because there was a high ticket item
tarek made four hundred dollars off of
two p
um who clicked this link so
stop complaining
it might not be in you but you only you
know that
but you can retrain your brain whatever
it is that you want man to do what you
love for a living i was even talking to
uh
somebody the other day and we're talking
about how like there's some people
that was tave the other day um where
some people you know we talk about this
drive and to do what you love and i get
to wake up and do what i love and it's
so
it is envious and it can't it came out
of envy though
because i seen other people doing it and
i got envious
but it was a good con it was a it was an
envy like man i wish i could do that
i didn't turn into a hater i put
i did the simp i did the spiritual work
i did the emotional work the mental work
and the physical work
so that what i seen that that what they
were doing that it was possible
to to wake up every day and to do what i
love for a living
and i did it so i hope that it drives
you to end to envy the scripture says it
would
the scripture says you'll be the envy of
all nations
all people will envy you because of your
love because of your peace because of
your favor with god and with people
come on come on i was talking with tave
and i put this out there and i talk
about
like there's people who are changing oil
and working on motors
and that's their thing they love it
i feel like they have there has to be
people who are who are doing that right
people who are changing your oil people
who are you know checking you out at
walmart or whatever now we get into a
place where technology can really do all
that
where technology works for us and you
don't need to be flipping a burger like
maybe that's an opportunity for somebody
starting out or something but it doesn't
have to be your career
of you know eight dollars an hour or
whatever they're making now they know
they're trying to make more but
anyway with that being said that those
people who are under the vehicles
installing fixing repairing
like they're listening to the podcast
and i'll mention that to tave he said
yeah but
even them if that is their passion
they can maybe even start their own
business they can own the company versus
getting paid for each job
or paid by the hour to do what they love
they can
start their own business whether it's
changing oil
there's ways to make more money there is
ways to invest and there's ways to still
do what you love
and make a greater income off of it
versus showing up and you have to be
there with that because i i got a i got
a friend of mine listen he didn't move
to where he's uh
he's a rapper friend of mine and um he's
bidding on jobs
he goes out he gets jobs and he hires
other people to do it
but he takes half of the commission
right off the back
right off the bat taking half he'll book
a 8 000
job pay the person 4 000 to do it
and he takes 4 000 off the top just by
getting the job and being the middle man
listen
y'all out here broke ain't got no money
that that that's on you
it is out here and i teach people you
know
how to do it how to do what you love and
how to
uh wake up each morning and do it and
there's a mindset that we think that
because
because you're broke you think
everybody's broke that was definitely my
mindset
nobody got no money nobody's gonna buy
this they don't have money that's not
the case
that's not true at all by any means
uh if you guys want to hang out wanna
ask some questions or just join the
conversation i'm
opening that up to do that so um
i think we got brother dave
joining us dave what is up man what's up
man good to see you brother
hey man got your your testimonial
yesterday for the
for the uh the the class and for the
program and
you're natural on camera so you
definitely need to keep that up man
right on man i appreciate that um i'm
listening to you
and doing the live and there's a little
bit of a lag
i i wonder if there's any way to fix my
end pause the other video pause the
youtube video and just listen on zoom
okay yep so just have one going
and it should work out so yeah for those
who are
who are bear with me you're good man for
those who are who are patrons that want
to hang out
i try to open up the podcast for those
just want to come in and say a couple
words and
ask questions or just join the
conversation and veer it wherever you
want to take it so we have the ability
to do that
uh you got to figure it out okay i'm
back yeah yeah yeah
so i wanted to speak a little bit about
uh my situation because i think it
applies to
it might apply to some of your other
viewers who
you know are are excited about this
spiritual journey they feel like they
have a message to bring
to the rest of the world but maybe
they're they're in a relationship
where they're relate they feel like
their relationship is holding
them back and i i was singing that song
for a very long time
and um what we did what i did in my
in my present circumstance and situation
is i've been married for 18 years i've
got a 14 year old son 11 year old
daughter
and my wife and i have come out of
christianity
so my wife is heavily in um
not heavily i would say but she's more
in
in alignment with fundamental
christianity where there's
heaven in hell there's judgment
consequences
and i've moved out of that so as i move
out of that
it was pretty scary for her so now
i i have to think to myself okay i've
got i've got these
epiphanies or whatever whatever you want
to call them that i can connect with
other people
but it's almost like i have to wait for
a little bit of lag time for her
to capture that idea too and not only
just capture that but to see the
fruit in my life yeah so she can partner
with me that so i can be like a trusted
person uh to to come behind
in in whatever the vision of our life
is and right now i try to paint it hey
let 20 years let's go to let's go to
hawaii and renew our vows you know to me
that's a business success like that's my
business success
yeah if i if i look at i i tell a lot of
the guys at work and a lot of the guys
that work i work in construction they
they come out of
uh divorces and stuff like that and and
i'll say your your primary investment is
yourself your health
but after that it's your it's your
marriage because
hey man if your marriage goes everything
goes
and if your marriage is very tough and
your life is really tough so
to me to make an investment like
i we had to get a marriage counselor to
help us to see
some of the problematic um areas of our
life where we can
allow healing in and that's how that's
how
that's what we did in our life and and
we just met with our counselor yesterday
we are leaps and bounds man yeah
two two months ago we were actively
talking about separation and that's when
we started the course man like i'm super
proud of you dude because i know all of
this stuff and i'm super
proud of you man that you stuck with it
and and you know if you
like all of it'll work if you work it
right
that's right that's right and i do know
i do know there's special things inside
of me
i was taking a walk the other day and
it's like i'm working on things i'm
turning on things
that they could be in a book format you
know um
but but i'm also getting a nudge to hey
do something right now
do something right now so um primarily
i'm celebrating my my marriage my family
that i i'm able to stay here in my home
play basketball games with my son
watch disney movies with my daughter and
and connect more with hey that's right
listen celebrating right that's the
biggest manifestation and i the thing is
like
okay let me let's let's go here because
it almost
it almost and whatever the enemy is
whatever the negativity is it's like
with manifestation you manifested that
because of decisions that you made
20 years ago to get married and now this
is the outcome this is the fruit
of your life is this marriage and it
gets rocky it gets hard
and and it almost almost got taken away
maybe outside circumstances maybe inside
circumstances within the psyche
a lot of people can manifest something
in their life they can
start it but they can't finish it
they can't maintain it like anybody
can you can do again with with the mlm
stuff you can start it you can sign up
you can get your first package
you can do it for a year you can't
finish it you can't maintain it
so there's an interesting quote that i
hear this a lot that
don't let your talents take you places
that your integrity
can't keep you you started this but
there's no way that you can maintain it
um so do the inner work spiritual work
make your mind up things get rocky
businesses get rocky your marriage is a
business agreement it's a relationship
agreement
that you signed up to it gets rocky
other things come in influences you get
knocked off your you get knocked on your
butt
um but you remember listen i said yes
and i vowed to do this and i'm not
fitting to be the laughing stock
of any anybody of myself you know i'm
not taking the easy way out i signed up
for this to be hard
and again your marriage is a perfect
example your business
your your even like your spirituality
you know what i'm saying all of it so
the
harder part it's easy to start the
harder part is to maintain
that thing that you said yes to
right on man i appreciate you love you
bro and uh you know blessings to you and
your family so happy for you and your
house
it was so magical sleeping there last
night i'm working hard and
uh trying to get everything uh situated
a lot of hard work but it's paying off
for sure and we've been scrimping and
not spending any money for for months
even
and my wife are trying to buy stuff like
nope you ain't buying it we gotta wait
till we get the new house
then it'll work but the new house seemed
so far away
like it just seemed like something that
wasn't going to happen and now we're
just like
buying furniture and bought a roomba and
all kinds of stuff you know so we're
super excited man so thank you for that
bro
you celebrate that with us it means the
world
cool all right man all right brother
talk with you soon and for everybody
again i know we've been
talking about it but me and dave is
going to do an official episode soon so
we can really get to the deep on his
story and
and really feature him as a as a guest
on here so i'm gonna send that link out
hopefully when i get off of here remind
me if i don't please but i'm gonna try
to i'll
post the link in the group so you guys
can book uh a talk i'd love to have you
on bro
all right hi dave dave volkner ladies
and gentlemen
later bro that's a good guy
that is a good guy dave volkner love
that dude
um he's he's been a day one he's uh
been supportive and um and he went
through our you know my program and he
he shows up man he shows up even when
when uh you know things were going hard
he kept showing up and that's the thing
keep showing up i can't tell you even
with like our patreon
or like um like our thursday night
sessions which are
really good and it is the community
aspect like some people show up and
then you may see them one time there's
people who've been here since the
beginning and i can't do nothing but
salute that
every thursday they show up and and they
know who they are
they continue to show up even when they
don't feel like it they're tired they
don't want to be there they show up
guess what i guess what i owe it i
should show up too
and not just be there but really be
present
in whatever you're doing whatever you're
building whatever you're creating
presence be there in your home
in your relationships with your family
with your business
all of it it'll work for you
if you work it if not somebody easily
slip in and take it from you
it's easy to get there
it's not as easy to maintain it can be
done
hard work pays off delayed gratification
helping people get what they want in
turn you get what you want
with that i'm gonna say peace and shalom
thank you guys for hanging out if you
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