Create Your Miraculous Life It’s Never Too Late – Wendy Darling – TruthSeekah Podcast

Create Your Miraculous Life: It's Never Too Late - Wendy Darling - TruthSeekah Podcast
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wendy
darling wendy welcome to the trueseeker
podcast my friend how are you
thank you derek great to be here good to
have you good to have you and uh excited
to jump into your story and uh seeing a
lot of similarities so this is something
that's near and dear to my heart to uh
step into my truth and and to do what
i'm doing
uh full time for a living but also just
in you know um embracing
my authenticity and and who it is that i
am and what i have to offer
and uh and some of the things i've read
in your bio are things that really jump
out to me so we're going to get into
that for people who are new to your work
they don't know who you are just kind of
give a quick overview who you are what
you bring to the table we'll start there
okay well this is actually my 40th year
since i started my own business um and i
was working
a bit before that as well
um i came from a very traditional
background i was
doing management and organizational
development work
i was traveling all over the united
states
and i was very sick
and unfortunately common sense did not
kick in
and
i chose to still try to get on that
flight to la
and i went outside the dallas airport
where i was living at that time
and i passed out and i fell over a ledge
and i fell approximately 25 feet
and
yeah that was a wow
and
um immediately they didn't know if they
could save my leg i landed on my right
leg it was shattered
i had multiple surgeries over a course
of about 10 months
didn't know if i was going to walk for
about that amount of time which i do
um around week four
oh well
also i had some back fractures i was
later diagnosed with the traumatic brain
injury and i'll get to that in
a second
and then my former husband also came
suitcases packed saying he no longer
wished to be married
and
even though i take full responsibility
for how i contributed to that
decision the timing you might appreciate
was not exactly optimal although it
probably never is
and
um when we went to court
he happens to be an attorney and he was
awarded full custody of our son who was
only four and a half at that time
and it was it all of this broke me wide
open
and it was my mom who suggested that i
might want to learn how to meditate
and at that time quieting my mind was a
complete oxymoron
and so yeah desperate times right so i
found somebody in dallas where i was
living at the time
and um
i remember after a couple of times we
met at this person's home small group
i went to michael and said
you know every time i almost feel my
mind is going to relax i get this urge
to sing
and he said well sing
and i started laughing i said you don't
understand i actually have people in my
life that request i not do that
and so he just said
just give it a try so i went back to my
little place
and
i allowed this melodic type of singing
to come out of me
and derek for the first time in a very
long time not only did my mind begin to
relax but so did
my body
and
and so as i mentioned i was living in
dallas what they say is true everything
is a little bit bigger i had this big
walk-in closet and i would go
in the closet to do this meditation and
singing and by the way i was in the
closet about all of this because
remember i just told you i was a very
traditional
consultant living just uh what i would
consider a regular life
and it wasn't too long after that i was
back at the same person's house i'm
walking by
another person in our small group
and out of my mouth
i'm walking by and i said you have a
block around your heart i'm like
where did that come from
and i'm walking and the
our instructor's son who was a teen at
that time
was somewhere behind me
and i remember hearing him kind of in
the distance from behind me saying to
the same person hey you have a block
around your heart and i'm thinking to
myself what has happened to me
so to kind of fast forward i began
working with all of this and the gift
of my accent i mentioned i've had also a
traumatic brain injury that was
later diagnosed i don't know if it was
the fall the brain injury the trauma but
something completely opened up in me
and i'm able to see energy i'm able to
work with it i've over time been able to
develop a whole system where i'm
literally able to find anything
interfering holding people back
closing that gap and what really makes
my process unique
is that we don't have to find all the
limiting beliefs we don't have to find
when and where it happened
we're able to make that shift
right away
and i'm so grateful even though i wish
my journey would have happened a whole
lot easier i'm very blessed that now i
work with people in a variety of ways i
still do consulting work
my lane in consulting work is
predominantly
working with executives and their teams
leadership development team development
however i have a whole personal growth
business now and i
work with entrepreneurs to grow their
business to make more money we can find
all those little mischief makers that's
holding you back with your business i
help singles attract love i've worked
with women predominantly women who have
been abused and in an extremely short
period of time they are freed from the
trauma of their past i've worked i work
with kids with learning disabilities
i have worked with some people with
health issues and concerns
so the bottom line
is i'm a unique mix because i still have
that traditional
foundational background in business and
all of that
but
i have this
extraordinary gift
that was given to me that helps people
really get to their results easier and
faster and in my world i help people
fulfill what i refer to as their divine
destiny where they're making their
special mark
that's so awesome
beautiful story and i love what you're
bringing to the table
uh let me ask you this about the
blockages that you see when you're
working with individuals
what type of blockages is that is that
mental blocks is that
spiritual and energetic blocks and just
moving stagnant energy which can be
blocks as well or is it would it be like
uh some people would say maybe negative
energies or demonic attachments or
something like that
we i think all of these are the same
thing but for you when you're
identifying blocks is it mental hang ups
is it stagnant energy what is it for you
when you say blocks yeah so um i when i
work with somebody i close my eyes and i
see them energetically and i see
where there are it looks like an x-ray
to me because part of my brain injury is
i'm very challenged to see in internally
in color i'm even a bit challenged to
see internally period
but it it appears as
an x-ray so it's black and white and
shades of gray so i'll see these dark
places
so it's just being taken so again
i mean every now and then i'll get a
sense of
uh if i feel if i'm being guided to
share something with somebody
in my world doesn't matter anymore you
know i just want to remove
that which has not been dealt with in
the past so yes
it it is
emotions and thoughts that have been
locked in
and not properly dealt with that's
interfering with the heart's desires
so it's all of that
um and yes um we do things to keep them
in a pure open aligned place
and i think
that that would be you know the roots of
a lot of stuff that's happening with
that that kind of leads to
blockages
in the mind as far as
limiting beliefs and thoughts and it
comes from some place that they were
uh triggered and you know they have
trauma and uh i've been seeing a lot of
that lately i don't know what it is just
on my podcast and
uh netflix just put out a documentary uh
called misha and the wolves
and it's all about this response to
trauma and people creating these
narratives
that comfort them especially with the
state of the world right now there's so
many different narratives of people what
they believe is going on and they've
accepted it
mostly it's negative stuff even in in
these narratives that they've they're
creating in and they're the hero of the
narrative and there's a lot of weird
realities that that people are living in
that you brush shoulders with and you
wouldn't even know it and it's usually a
response to trauma something traumatic
that happened and it's their way of
coping with it and
dealing with it are you seeing uh just
are we is that ramping up has it always
been there and i'm just becoming even
more aware of it or is it something
that's
you know it's helping people get you
know navigate through this this time
even though it might not be the truth or
might not be serving them
um i think it's a little bit of both of
what you're saying um i think there's
been a lot
that's been there but there haven't been
the vehicles to support these people and
i think because of social media and the
way technology has evolved we're hearing
a lot more
um there's there's still stigma but not
to the extent
that
there used to be
and so people are expressing themselves
and yes we're in a very unique pivotal
time
where all of this is being dialed up
and and of course what i really
appreciate what you just said
is that our minds and body
do everything possible to make us feel
safe and okay
even if it means we make up all sorts of
stories we repress emotions we we block
memory
um our bodies are magnificently
designed to keep us feeling safe
and so
the trauma
you see that's where i'm so grateful
because
boom i can i'm bad choice of words
possibly
but i can release that
and
my process is also very unique because
it's not just release work there is what
i refer to as the brain training
component
so we are either
strengthening an existing neural pathway
so your mind is working in alignment
with what your heart's desires are
or we're creating a new neural pathway
and the beauty of the system in that
regard is a three-part process
in in working with the brain training
aspect
is as you're strengthening this neural
pathway
if there's anything not in alignment to
that let's say i am safe it's a very
common
um
affirmation that somebody may use
to start to strengthen and align
well if there's still
um thoughts and feelings in the
subconscious in the undercurrent where
you're not aware it's going to rise to
the surface
and go really well let me tell you this
and this i mean we're not aware that
that's what's happening that's why we
experience so much interference
and
and the process then
takes care of
the issues in the subconscious and just
melts it releases it away
so as you're strengthening you're still
continuing to clear out anything that
has not yet been
addressed
what i really like about what what
you're sharing and your story is that
this isn't something that that you just
kind of made up you say right this is
something that you've had to actually
walk through
and apply to yourself and and it's
actually helped you get to where you are
today and it helped you to process and
and and heal as well
so that's that's one of the things that
that stands out you know i talked about
the the programming course that i
created and it was just simply like okay
let's just do a life review and how did
i get through my blocks how did i get
through my traumas how did i say yes how
did i get over the fear of of money or
charging for a private session that
should be done for free at least
everyone else thinks and you know and
just mapping it out and say okay this is
how i dealt with it and if it worked for
me
it's going to work for you too so to be
able to see that you've actually mapped
out what's worked for you is is awesome
and that's how we know it has substance
to it so
whenever whenever you went through this
this this process yourself was this
through the process of of meditation did
someone help you did you learn this from
from someone or how did you actually um
navigate through this yourself
oh um lots and lots of of hours lots and
lots of trial and error
um you know i one thing i'm very
grateful for is i never gave up
and even though there were probably days
maybe even weeks i mean collectively
where i just wanted to pull the covers
back over my head um it was a
challenging time
but i think it was my inner guidance i
kept saying
you know keep going don't give up and i
don't know that it was actually stated
in that way
but
i i think it's just so invaluable
for people to know
that our lives are a journey you know
none of our
lives none of our trajectory at least
nobody i've met is a straight line
and
it reminds me
of when we were little kids or if um and
we went to bowling alleys
and you would put the bumpers in the
gutters
so that the ball wouldn't always go in
the gutter so it redirected the ball
well that's kind of like life you know
we go a certain distance maybe you're
starting to get a little momentum and
boom you know you kind of hit a place a
snag of sorts and those quote snags are
opportunities to to evaluate hey what
are we doing do we need to adjust do we
need to try this you know i think one of
my primary motivators
was i kept wanting to find easier and
faster ways to support people
uh it took me quite some time
to cut to really get my sea legs back
and
and so
i was always looking for easier and
faster so for example
when i first started working with
what was my system at that time
i was i was looking for
what was happening what went wrong what
you know what trauma what where's the
limiting belief where's the block
so
it was all going back in time
and there was a day that i went
especially because you know the gift of
my brain injury is i started really
learning a lot about how the brain
worked because i wanted to support my
brain as best as possible
and there was a day now many years ago
that i went what if we're looking at
this in the wrong direction
and especially because whatever we
really focus on it's keeps that neural
pathway it keeps that thought alive and
working
so i was coming from a place of let's
find it and let's fix it so
inadvertently we're always looking
what's wrong what needs to get corrected
instead of
let's look about what you want to be
creating what do you want to be
experiencing let's come from that place
and and the other takes care of itself
and that really started to
help people even more effectively
and then there was another piece that
came into play at some point that is now
called my results accelerator because
again i'm always asking the question
what can we do
to get you to your desired results
easier and faster
and so that also was happening
and what that is is i have 10 areas that
we look at and let's say you want to
make more money well maybe it's that's
your primary entry point your results
accelerator is you need to focus on your
career so you'd be making more money
sometimes
it's a different category can i give you
an example sure thanks
so i had somebody this has now been
quite a few years ago he was actually
one of the earlier people that used my
results accelerator
he was a consultant his business was
really taking a nosedive he just
couldn't get any new
clients no new contracts and he
obviously understandably he was
concerned
his results accelerator was he was to
start dating
now i want you to know if that were me
making that up i would never have
suggested that i would have said let's
get your life going then we can talk
about the dating and relationship thing
and so you know i think we were both
kind of like well let's trust the
process
unfortunately we did i helped him with
his online profile he started talking to
women he was living in costa rica at
that time and somehow he managed to
connect with the woman in brazil
and this was after just a couple three
weeks
and they just had this strong wonderful
connection
and very shortly after they started
connecting
guess what happened
out of the blue he landed this huge
contract
that he could still do the type of work
he did didn't matter um where he lived
because of places like what we're doing
right now with technology
and um he actually ended up moving to
brazil
i want to say about three months later
and and so it's really interesting i had
a woman that
came to me to release weight because i
had helped her friend release 60 pounds
in just a few months
and her results accelerator was her
career
she wasn't very happy with me she said i
didn't come to talk to you about my
career so again let's trust the process
helped her with the resume she actually
got a new job in about three weeks
got in guess what started happening to
her weight when she was in her new
career
her new job
started so
yeah so the results accelerator does
just that
you know like i said sometimes it's a
direction you know direct
sometimes it's not yeah
that's awesome like i could see it too
you know because i look back over my
life a lot of things you just said like
you know thinking about the dating or
finding that person
that's gonna help you release that flow
because like
it could be a confidence thing like once
you have somebody that believes in you
that did wonders for me like i was in a
you know as a teenager you know my my
home life wasn't the best and
uh family really wasn't around and
didn't have a i didn't really have a you
know a female in my life including my
mother that believed in me like it
almost felt like never and then i met a
girl
who believed in me and then guess what
once that happened
i didn't have to impress anybody anymore
like i only had to you know make her
happy and and she there's things that
she brought out of me
that other areas of my life begin to
flourish and continue to flourish
because of the love and the compassion
that the relationship brought now
everything else falls into alignment so
there could be something missing that
you're just out of balance
and once you identify that everything
just
falls into place so being able to
identify that especially when somebody
comes on for a session with you and
you're like i didn't want to talk about
that you're telling me i need to do this
this and this when i really just need to
make more money it's like yeah that's
going to release a confidence in you
that you can't buy with money that is
priceless and so once you once you step
into that that's amazing being able to
see it and and help those individuals by
just shifting that one thing
another thing that you said
that i felt like i
hindered me for a while was i went
through my own healing and it was
through one-on-one sessions with with a
couple years ago
and uh we went
it was really in-depth like we went
through paperwork and i had to check off
all of this stuff about lies that i've
believed about myself and have you ever
heard these thoughts in your head have
you ever heard those thoughts what's
your nationality of your mother's
background your father's back like it
was a lot of in in-depth stuff and it
worked because like even that made me
think about it oh wow maybe this is here
so it was a lot of paperwork and it was
a lot of
meetings weekly meetings until we
actually engaged in in in this healing
session and uh so in my head when i
stepped into healing sessions i'm like
wow
it's gonna take weeks
so i can't really bring you that result
of everything that happened for me
in four weeks and four sessions within
one hour session or two hour session
because in my head it was like we got to
go six weeks for you to get this really
you know powerful transformation and
that wasn't the case like a lot of stuff
like you said if you if you can tap into
spirit you can pinpoint it and say boom
it's this one thing you just need to
forgive this person and when you do and
you mean it
that's the blockage that everything's
going to open up to be able to identify
that it was a while for me to be able to
know that it could happen
like that
yeah which is really nice you know and
it depends on the situation some people
it can happen just like that
some people
you know it's more like um
an onion
you know and and the body and mind is
only able to deal with so much at a
certain time but i will say most people
don't work with me hardly at all you
know i even have especially with covid
i have these jump start sessions
where i do healing work we find
you know
exactly where you want to be
we find
what's holding you back i give you the
process to work with so
you can basically go and run with it
and i because
i
i really felt like especially with what
we've been going through with the
pandemic i just want to be helping as
many people as possible yeah because it
it has been a tremendously challenging
time for all of us
you know um i'm no exception to that
you know i um i'm a professional speaker
my speaking business kind of went
down
and
so
and for that matter i was feeling i
don't know
quote why i don't entertain the y very
often but i was really feeling this urge
to go more in inward again and this is
when i was guided to write my
most recent book
but also it was a very challenging time
for me because my son became very ill
and um i of course
uh was very grateful to devote my time
and attention to him
and i know and so the timing of the book
was really
so
relevant to me because it actually
started out derek at with the theme of
it's never too late
this was last year i was 69 rapidly
seeing 70 come up you know it's like how
the heck
did that happen and
and um
and there's still so much i want to be
doing and offering and contributing and
enjoying
and that's the key right if it if you
have that desire i mean you're helping
people
manifest the desires
of their hearts and getting clear on
those desires wendy we got to go to a
quick break but i want to explore this a
little bit more on the other side your
book is create your miraculous life
it's never too late and really that last
tagline it's never too late i'm going to
talk about that in your life and many
other people that i've come across who
think it's too late for many many
reasons guys we'll be right back on the
other side after this
wow so the throne room meditation man
this was just like a new level for me of
creating encounter uh really the process
behind it is going in for myself having
an encounter with the lord tapping into
the spirit and getting in his presence
and really just petitioning the father's
heart and saying god
what would you say to them if i'm
bringing these people with me here if
they're doing this guided meditation and
we're going through this journey we're
having fun we're seeing things we're
experiencing new feelings and emotions
and sensations
what would you say to them so it's
channeling the father's heart
and relating it back to the people so
man it's just a beautiful encounter and
i remember when i wrote the first one
i was so excited about it and it was
just
god speaking to my heart i was able to
channel the father's heart and i would
read the script to people because i was
just so excited while i was working on
it and every time that i would just read
the script the presence of god would
just invade me and i just burst into
tears and i couldn't even read it i'm
just like let me copy and paste it and
send it to you but every time i listen
to it i'm immediately translated
back into the throne room of god and uh
everything's good there
that's the place where everything is
okay where in the scriptures it says
that we are to hide under the shadow of
the almighty this is the throne room of
god this is the place that we can
encounter for ourselves but this is also
a place in which we dwell so a part of
us is always there and we have access to
that now there's people who have never
encountered this before in their life
and it's a totally new experience for
them and almost every time i get a
testimony back from someone they just
say how god wrecked their lives that
they didn't know what they were getting
into
next thing they know they're in the
presence of god
wrapped up in his glory he's
communicating his love to them and it
just totally wrecks their lives so
make sure you check out the throne room
guided meditation visualization that i
brought to the table
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night
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alright ladies and gentlemen we're back
if you're just joining us we are
speaking with wendy darling about her
book create your miraculous life it's
never too late and we're going through
some of the formulas and some of the
process as it is to manifest your
uh destiny bring forth your desires your
god-given desires your birthright
finding out why it is that you're here
and how to bring it to the table wendy
again the tagline it's never too late i
got so many stories that i want to share
about how i thought it was too late i've
heard people
tell friends that yeah it's too late for
you you should have started before you
had kids you should have started here
my it's it is it too late like asking
the question asking god the universe is
it too late like did i start too late
uh i was 30 like 32 asking that question
and feeling overwhelmed like yeah it's
too late man it's too late 32 you were
69 i know people in there 70 75 who
start a coaching business who step out
into their destiny and your tagline is
perfect it's never too late can we
expand a little bit more upon that
oh well i believe that is true in every
fiber of my being
whether it be starting a business
shifting your career getting healthy
attracting love replenishing your
relationship it is never too late you
know i'm 70 years old
and i gotta tell you you know and i
i live it myself i've worked with many
people older than me
to um jump start something
and and so it's it's never too late the
only thing that's holding you back is
possibly believing that it is that's
just in my world i got to tell you it's
silly
it's anything that you still desire in
your heart is possible
period and
why waste any time and yes i've had
people in their 30s and 40s that wonder
has life passing by i'm like are you
kidding me
you know that let's face it there is no
guarantee about anything
and including
am i going to be here later this
afternoon am i going to wake up tomorrow
morning you know we have to
you know on one hand we don't want to
live in fear
but what are you really wanting to make
of your life
our world needs what you and only you
can contribute
i believe
that each and every one of us is born
with unique gifts a unique direction
that only you and you can provide and
that's part of our job we have to find
out first of all what are our gifts
and to begin to cultivate them to
develop the skills needed
you know where is your mission where
where are your heartstrings really
bothered you know a lot of times people
focus on
purpose
you know what's your purpose in life
well first of all i believe you have
lots of them and you get to choose which
direction you want to go
sometimes it really does stem for
something that you're just happy and
passionate about
more times than not at least in the
people that i have personally connected
with
it i feel that purpose and destiny comes
from challenges just like what you were
talking about you know i also had
you know quite honestly i had a mom who
was highly critical and abusive
my self-worth was like on the floor i
didn't know who i was i looked outside
of myself for
clarity for suggestions for advice it
took me a long time to start trusting in
me
and so it's it becomes really important
that we look at
you know just like what you said derek
earlier
you know what have been
the different places in life that have
led you to where you are today you know
when i was laying in the hospital in
dallas texas
going how the heck what choices had i
made
that got me to where i was right then
and what did i have to do differently
and part of that journey was also just
figuring out who i was not who i thought
i was
and so i think it's just really
important so
you have we all have that responsibility
to discover our gifts our direction our
purpose if you want to call it that
and cultivate our skills in a way that
we can make our own special mark you
know just like our thumbprint there's
nobody else on earth quite like you
and only you can make that special
contribution
it doesn't mean we're all going to be
presidents it doesn't mean we're all
going to be the next
um elon musk
it might be but it could be that you're
going to be the difference maker in your
community or your family or with your
kids
uh there's a quote from the rapper tupac
shakur who said
i'm i'm not gonna be the
person that changes the world
he said but i guarantee you i will
inspire the mind that does
and i thought that that was an
interesting
uh quote to know your place to know your
impact and know that your words carry
weight and everything that you do
ripples out
in this life and in in the next as well
we're still singing this guy's music far
beyond you know he's not here anymore
and so just leaving that impact and
figure out what it is for you
going back to the tagline again it's
never too late i feel like if we're
trying to identify a block if we're
trying to get over a hurdle and if you
think that it's too late for you i feel
like that's almost like an instant way
to identify it because if you feel that
way that it's too late for you
there's usually right behind it there's
usually a why
why because i have kids early on because
i don't make enough money uh you know
just identifying what it is as soon as
you ask that question is it too late
there's usually a y right behind it so
it's almost something that's and
obviously that can be connected to many
other routes and things like that but it
seems like there's an inkling for us to
identify
the lie and nullify it as well just by
simply asking that question why do we
feel that it's too late
so
i live differently than that perspective
i don't need to know the why nor do you
um we need to focus on what you want to
be experiencing and coming from that
place
by doing that using my process
it then
melts away that interference
so again what i was saying
otherwise you're programming your mind
to always be looking for what's wrong
and what needs to be fixed i'm saying we
need to look at what you want to be
experiencing because the more we can
live from that place
energetically
it takes care of the undercurrent
and that's a major shift that's
happening right now
in our world
that you know we did the best we knew
how you know when i was in graduate
school lifetimes ago i don't even know
how many years ago a long long time ago
it really was
you know all verbal um in terms of
trying to find what's up what needs to
change we had to rely on talk therapy
and i'm not saying that that's not
sometimes very important because they
still believe sometimes it is
however
we then started finding ways to create
work within the energetic system work
with the mind and then there are people
like me that are even
shifting the way we change even more
significantly and it's easier it's it
doesn't take much effort it does take
some because you have to use the process
you have to work with your mind i think
my mind was the most challenging of any
person i've ever worked with
um i really had
a lot to overcome and i'm sure that my
brain injury didn't help
in that regard but you know still
it had me even on a trajectory and then
what also happens derek is we make
progress
and we come to a new shall we say a new
mountaintop
and so
it has us having to expand even more
grow even more and a lot of times people
forget how far they've come
you know the young woman that i was when
i had my accident you know i think i was
around 36 37 38 i don't even remember
how old i was
you know it's very different than the 70
year old woman that you're speaking with
today do i walk on more water absolutely
not am i do i still have tender moments
absolutely
but i'm able to navigate through life so
much easier
than ever before and i think that's an
important point as well
life is not guaranteed to be a cakewalk
yeah
yeah and
what about
gratitude do you work with gratitude at
all like i hear for for many people like
that's a way to
um
you know attract beautiful things into
your life to be thankful for what you do
have right i mean even after an accident
like there's so many negative things and
things to complain about and but i feel
like when you shift to
the beautiful things and well i'm glad
i'm still here because i could have
died when i fell i could have
never been able to walk and so there's
it's you can shift to to gratitude and
you hear a lot of people talking about
that it's it's very near and dear to my
heart but is that a part of your process
at all is to helping people absolutely
you know and for that matter almost
every single day that's how i start my
day for sure um and there are days that
it's like gosh i'm so grateful my
heart's still beating my lungs still
working i have a roof over my head
sometimes i i like everyone else more
than likely i have to pull and just look
at the tiniest little things to possibly
be grateful for
and i also know because you know as i
mentioned i've had my business for many
years
you know
business is also
you know not exactly
a a straight line
and you know with the pandemic and you
know for many of us
i find that when i just start getting
more
um
opportunities to be generous to be
giving
i feel like that also helps the flow
you know it's very easy for for the any
of us to get caught up in our own stuff
and i for one
watch that very carefully because
i love serving other people you know i
kind of get cranky when i'm not working
with many people
and and so
if you're struggling with something
help help see if you can support someone
else
when you can get out of your own
world you will start feeling better
because there are so many people that
i'm sure want your support in some way
and i know that if i can be of support
to any of your viewers any of your
listeners please make sure that you
reach out to me there are a wide variety
of ways that i can support you
you know i have a jump start offer which
is just a one session something and of
course i work more extensively with
people too and i have courses coming up
this fall which i'm excited about
and so
it we are not designed to live on
mountaintops isolated
and if anything covet is hopefully
starting
to have people realize is how important
our connections are
i don't know about your circumstances
obviously derek
but not being able to see my family my
friends for quite some time being able
to hug
um a close friend for the first time
after many months for that matter my mom
my mom is in memory care here in
san diego
and
because of covid i literally was only
able to see her maybe three times in a
course of a year and that was with
outside with plexiglas in between us
and you know that was horrific yeah um
thank goodness she was receiving really
quality care
but you know
it's time for us to reach out it's okay
to say
i'm confused i'm scared
i don't know even what to do i just need
a hug you know whatever it is and thank
goodness for zoom
my only regret
is
you know i didn't have the foresight to
invest in zoom because it just went
yeah
through the pandemic
so
so if any of you that are listening
are struggling
who can who can you reach out to
um who can you say
i just need an
ear right now i need a friend right now
i need a hug right now
i'm just not feeling well
and
we all have those moments
and this is a time for us to pull
together even more let's not talk about
our differences
let's talk about our commonalities yes
we're human beings
living a human experience and all this
craziness that's going on
is
so very
unfortunate well wendy i've really
enjoyed this conversation thank you so
much for hanging out with me and making
this work uh let people know where they
can go to find out about your courses
and your book and what's the best
website and place where people can book
sessions with you and all that cool
stuff where can they find out more about
your work sure well first of all the
books available on amazon
um create your miraculous life it's
never too late my website is
wendydarling.com
um there are ways to get a hold of me
through that or
just email me directly wendy
wendydarling.com
we can have just a friendly
heart-to-heart chat
see if what i offer is a fit for you
i have a jump start offer
my create your miraculous life is going
to be starting
late october we're going to be having an
attract love now
for singles more money now
so those are a few things that are
getting ready to come up this year
awesome wendy thanks so much for hanging
out with me really enjoyed it my friend
we'll have to do it again thank you
okay derek thank you as well have a
great day thanks
wendy darling ladies and gentlemen
hope that uh you guys enjoyed that
conversation and know
that
it's never too late
it is never too late you know and really
that that uh
sentiment hits home with me
you know just coming back over my
journey and
and
remember sitting
in my work truck
that i had been driving this truck for
10 years
and
feeling like
the dreams and vision had passed me by
like it's time to give up on it like
it's it's almost like okay at some point
you got to get with the program
at some point
you need to
focus on
your career as a truck driver
really get serious about it i've been
there 10 years you think you're serious
like i was there because
an accident you know like i needed a job
and somebody said they were hiring i
wouldn't put in an application and had
been there 10 years
i didn't go to school for it i didn't
want to do it
things just
you know fell that way and so 10 years
later and all of this magic and all this
beauty that's happening in my life
spiritually and
getting clear
on possibilities and even
you know for me it was
plant ceremonies and
meditation and float tanks and
really just communing with with spirit
and uh and seeing
the possibilities
whether it's in your imagination
or for me it was huge yes in my
imagination all the time but also
seeing other people living their bliss
like seeing other people get to wake up
and do what they love for a living but i
gotta wake up and do what i hate for a
living
where's the gratitude in that
there's there's a lot of it you gotta
find it you know that that
job paid me better than my last one
you know uh my last boss was abusive and
the work was degrading you know a lot of
that kind of stuff and so
that thing that we're complaining about
you know was an answer to prayer and
somebody would would quickly love to be
in your position
somebody else who is in a worse position
or is still at that old job or making
pennies on a dollar you know what i'm
saying not making like barely being able
to make ends meet so you have to find
the gratitude
be grateful while you're there look for
the uh
all the lessons there there's lessons
and everything there's lessons in
conversations there's lesson lessons in
in jobs and
you know being mindful of that but
you know i came to the point 10 years
into it after having these beautiful
encounters and and kind of getting clear
on what i wanted to do and what was
possible and again
for me it was it was working with
healers
it was uh
working with tattoo artists as far as
going get tattooed you guys see i have a
lot of tattoos and
most of like the places i went to get
tattooed it was like such a
fun environment that these people were
you know they love
what they did for a living they got to
wake up and draw on your on your body
and create art and uh and get paid
really good like tattoo artists get paid
really good
you know and so uh
to see them and to be around that energy
and to like you know at the time
listening to a lot of joe rogan and his
experts who were just like this is their
field they've given their life to study
in it and then they get to speak on it
to see him
you know of uh just choosing what he
wants to do and doing it he's like yeah
i want to i want to be a ufc commentator
i want to do the podcast and
at this point that's it i'm not doing
anything else well you could be an actor
you can do this you guys no not doing
that i'm gonna focus on these that's
what i want to do this is what i'm gonna
do
other people as well like i said other
healers in my life and friends and just
seeing them in their bliss and i got
jealous
you know i wanted to be able to do it
like why can't i do it
you know you start identifying those
reasons why well you can't do it because
you started too late you got married too
early like all of these things come in
your head and you got to be single to do
that and i remember even being at the
float tank uh
uh shop uh sensory deprivation tank and
we did
uh plant medicines in the
century deprivation tank and we got
really clear on our journeys and what we
wanted to bring to the table myself and
my good friend drew gower and i remember
him talking to the owner of the float
tank and he was a friend
and uh you know we had all these
ambitions that you get when you come out
of a ceremony in a journey like that and
i'm writing everything down
and uh and i overheard that conversation
and he like the owner was telling my
buddy drew why it's too late for him
yeah you should have started before you
had kids man now you just need to focus
on your kids and uh you know just stick
at that job and you know don't worry
even though it's a job that you hate a
job that you loathe you have so much
more to offer offer the world
but the guy was like yeah just
just focus on your kids now man don't
really you know your times pass you know
you had your shot and now you're older
and you got kids and you really just
need to focus on them and i remember
that just breaking my heart like wow is
it
is it too late for him
is it too late for me i've got kids like
should i just focus on my kids and focus
on getting a better job working at a
uh you know a plant or being a
construction worker or something like i
don't know too many people personally
who who are professional podcasters or
professional rappers and i know a lot of
rappers
and none of them is making any money
you make a few dollars here and there
but to be able to support a family a
wife and a daughter and bills and all of
that like everything that you're doing
so it seemed like a pipe dream
something that was just like yeah you
should have started years ago especially
at the time like rapping like that's
something for young people to do like
everybody who pop pops off rapping are
like
18 to 24 you know here i am almost 33 at
the time
and uh you know feeling like it passed
me by but
all that to be said that was what was
going on in my head to to remember
sitting in my truck and like
i got to a customer where i was
delivering car parts and i got there
early and i just began to think about it
like
you know did this do i need to
quit letting this stuff entertain my my
mind my imagination do i need to rule it
out
like is it going to happen is it too
late
because if it's too late i just need to
give up on it and and focus on reality
you know
and i just remember crying just in tears
and saying a prayer like listen i don't
if if it's a pipe dream i need to let it
go but if it's real and if it's
something that that i can bring into my
reality then i want to i don't want to
give up on my dreams and in the tears
was was me thinking
you know what
at what age do you give up on your
dreams
the dreams that you had mostly since you
were a kid and those dreams evolved in
this shift and they changed a little bit
but
when did you give
up you're 33
get yours get your stuff together quit
thinking about being a rapper you're not
making any money you're not doing this
you're trying to be a podcaster listen
you don't have the budget to promote
your there's all these reasons why you
can't that's why i was trying to say
during the interview all these reasons
come up why you can't
and
you know i was crying
asking god asking the universe listen
what is it what year do i give it up and
then what age i was like is it
at 17 or at 20 you should like pick a
direction
at 30 listen you're 30 like you know
give it up man just
you know focus on where you are in your
career move up the corporate ladder man
you can be
you can be the head honcho at this shop
this could be your shop
but then i'm looking at my boss and they
just
they miserable
they there because they got to be too
they're they're there because they gave
up on their dream
they didn't want to i'm sure at 17 and
at 30 they didn't want to be a warehouse
manager
they had other things other dreams
aspirations
but at some point they gave up on them
so i was at that precipice do you give
up on it or do you recapture the dream
so in the midst of that time i messed
around and read the book the alchemist
which is like hey recapture your
childhood dream like do what you can to
to embrace it and bring it into your
reality
and and that that book didn't help as
well as
the psilocybin
journey that we did
so getting clear on it and uh and say
you know what nope i'm gonna give it a
shot i'm gonna i'm gonna double down i'm
gonna work harder i'm gonna work smarter
i'm gonna put in more hours i'm gonna
wake up early i'm gonna meditate i'm
gonna pray and i'm gonna create
something every day i'm gonna do a
podcast even when i don't feel like it
i'm gonna stay booked out even though if
i'm working 17 hours today which i was
come right in
and sit down at the computer kiss my
wife kiss my daughter but we got a
podcast to do
9 30 at night 10 o'clock at night i had
been up since 1 am
because i had to get up from my job
sit down hey welcome to the trueseeker
podcast ladies and gentlemen today's
guest is so and so and there was there
was those days but listen
hard work pays off
hard work and and dedication pays off
you have to be willing to to show up
when when other people aren't like if
you want to be promoted on that job you
know you want to be the warehouse
manager listen
do stuff that other people aren't doing
when there's dead time and people are
just hanging out and
you know water cooler conversation sweep
the floor
like show like prove yourself worthy
that you want it whatever it is whatever
career whatever path that you want to
create
you have to just keep showing up
keep showing up
matt young
in the comment section my brother here
says
hey man
just got on at the end i will check out
the interview by the way you look like
you went backwards in age like five
years keep it up
thank you sir
yes i uh i've been trying to take care
of my health and uh getting in the gym
and working out and playing basketball
staying active and then taking care of
my diet and i feel
a lot better it's one of those things
where like you know it's the only body
you got you might as well take care of
it and for many people i think when it
comes to self-image and and self-care
self-help and all that
a lot of people don't care
you know whether you're putting on
weight or whatever it is but for someone
like myself i thought about it too much
like every time i pass by the mirror and
i see the love handles and i pass by the
mirror and i i wish i could you know
look better in a tank top or whatever it
was you know um
i thought about it too much not to do
something
just like the dream thing
how much energy are you giving to this
like if you're thinking about it a lot
you should probably do something many
people don't care eat a whole sleeve of
oreos instant gratification it's coming
for you later though it's coming for you
with diabetes it's coming for you with
love handles like instant gratification
never pays off like instant
gratification is let me get paid today
let me be happy now let me take this
pill but like do the work and be in it
for the long haul this is your body so
for me it was like
you know i thought about it too much not
to do something
and so i did and uh and guess what
when i pass by the mirror now i don't
have that monster talking to me you know
what if you did this
you can't do that just like listen get
clear this is what i want this is what i
got to do
got to stop eating junk got to start
eating healthy food and
being active and
keep making
the right decisions over and over and
over again
and then you create the life that you
want that's your career that's your body
guess what you didn't if you're if
you're
you know if you've put on weight and
you're considered overweight by whatever
standard that is
like that wasn't an overnight thing
you didn't eat one meal
and then
look in the mirror you're like oh man i
ate one meal
and now i'm
you know bigger than i was
um you made that decision a lot
you made a lot of bad decisions
when you
had a taste for salt or a taste for a
snack
you went for the candy bar you went for
the ice cream
i say you i'm talking about me
i went for it and so i did that a lot
years i was a truck driver all i did was
eat and drive it's like the only thing
that got me through the day
and so
once you
start making all of those
decisions
bad decisions over you know three years
three months it don't take much for real
but once you start making all those bad
decisions you gotta in turn on the other
side
make those same
good decisions
on the other side
like that many times like how many bags
of chips did you eat
that may be the equivalent of how many
bananas you need to eat
how many times how many days did you not
work out well you may need to work out
you know so you got to be in it for the
long haul
and uh and and make the decisions make
the right decisions because it's a life
of eating
mcdonald's or
slamming mcdonald's or eating two
burgers listen you just need to eat one
and you may need to eat it without the
bread you know make make good decisions
because in the end it's going to pay off
you're going to start to see results
yeah that's with your body
it's also with your spirituality and
it's also with your job or your career
start showing up start creating
something start saying yes and making
the right decisions
like if you want it and nobody's going
to do it for you
we always want somebody to invite us to
their table and somebody to put us on
because we got some beautiful things to
offer
we got so much to offer each and every
one of us and we think that somebody's
gonna say hey man join this or let me
interview you and then you in your mind
you think that if even if that does
happen that you're set for life so and
so interviewed you now you got a million
eyes on you that's not like you gotta
you have to keep showing up
even if that happened well that
would be a reason to show up if i get
all these eyes on what i have to offer
and bring to the table or if so and so
put me on their
payroll or so and so let me preach or if
i got a record deal or with no listen
you got to build it if they don't invite
you to the table create your own table
make your own chair
there's trees out there that means
there's going to be wood
god doesn't make tables
god doesn't make chairs
but he's giving you
the trees in the wood to do so you got
to do the work
you have the imagination
and the resources to do it now do you
have the know-how do you have the
follow-through do you have the ingenuity
youtube will teach you all kinds of
things
save money on
car insurance
save money on fixing your vehicle
you can get on youtube at this point and
and google what's wrong with your video
i mean with your with your car and
youtube will show you how to fix it
and something that would have cost you
six thousand
a thousand eight hundred whatever make
sure may really only cost you twenty
dollars to fix
but you got to be willing to do it
yourself and be willing to put into work
everything's out there
but it's how bad do you want it
with that being said you got to stop
blaming others
only person responsible for your weight
is you
the only person responsible for your job
situation is you
once you're cognitive of it
god gives you the resources in the trees
cut down the trees
build a chair
build a table build a boat build
whatever it is you you create something
new that doesn't even exist
something original
you got the resources but just praying
for a chair god i pray you give me a
chair out of nowhere and there's trees
around you
it's an analogy people
you have the
you have to use
whatever it is in your reach
to the best of your ability
with your own ingenuity and your own
know-how and yeah if you don't know how
to do it
make the money
take your car to the shop
but be careful
because
it's a such a thing called an upsell
that we've been dealing with with with
our cars at certain places you take your
car to get an oil change
and they're trying to sell you four new
tires
and they're pretty convincing well
listen i don't think it's gonna make it
out of here on those tires and we can't
change your oil unless you get a new
battery and what so
do a little research
of what it is that you're trying to do
but what you don't know how to do
there's coaches out there there's people
you can hire there are car shops you can
take your car to there are people who
are doing what you want to do and for
the most part you can hire them you can
hire those people and pick their brain
listen to their podcast like schedule a
session with them
there's a coach and you save yourself so
much time and and heartache and and pain
to to to learn and sit under somebody
you know that
i have my my program the path of the
healer it really just duplicates
everything that i'm doing that people
want to do you know i get messages man i
want to do what you're doing okay well i
got a course coming out a program where
i'm going to hold your hand
and meet with you for eight weeks
and give you all the tools we're gonna
we're gonna get over the blockages and
identify what that stuff is
and i'ma work with you to bring it to
the table therefore you have no excuses
and the problem is people continue to
come up with excuses
my goal is really to eliminate all your
excuses
yeah but
my dad said
i don't have the money
you're buying cigarettes every day
which you mean you don't have the money
to eat right but you're smoking
cigarettes that cost seven dollars a
pound what we gotta look at those
excuses
again when you ask yourself the reason
why not you all
there's an excuse that pops up
and if there ain't no excuses then you
should be doing it
you should be creating you should be
manifesting taking it to the next level
whatever it is that you want to do and
want to create you are never
too old it's never too late to get
started this lady
was 69 years old
and stepped out and started a coaching
business started doing one-on-one
sessions
trust me
i know the reasons
why you shouldn't and why you can't and
i know it it wasn't big for her but it
was big for me
i want to do guided meditations yeah but
you
people make fun of your speech all the
time you stutter you sound like you're
from the hood i get i still get those
comments why do you think that you're
why is this guy trying to be black why
does he why is this white guy with with
braids acting like he's black on the
podcast i can't watch it his voice gets
under my skin and you don't think that
that's a that doesn't create a blockage
for like
being a
a coach or doing guided meditations for
sure
like if i'm a dude maybe i have to do
ghetto guided meditations hey fam
welcome to the podcast you feel me i
want y'all to relax i want y'all to cool
down you feel me like
you know that was a huge block for me so
um
i had to get over it i had to identify
and see what i wanted more whether that
was watching videos on how to be
better spoken
and i tell you what if you listen to my
podcast now and you go back to when i
started i've been doing this for a long
time if you go back to 2010 when i
started my podcast
listen to me speak
i've learned
a lot i'm still not the best i'm still
me it is who i am
and in that
baggage and that weight and those
questions of your voice sucking and you
should never do a guided meditation and
you could never sound like this it
wouldn't be effective or whatever your
voice isn't soothing
like i get messages of people like what
are you talking about we love your voice
like i love your voice and
you know so i'm like trying to hire
voice actors to to read my guided
meditations and people like wait wait
wait we we love your voice we want to
hear you there's a there's a connection
that we have with your podcast and the
information and if somebody else reads
it it's not going to connect as much
you know so
you have to understand
what it is that makes you different
you're unique there's no that's you know
we're often uh
you know imitated but never duplicated
there's not another you out there
there's not another me you can't do this
like me you have to figure out your lane
now you can be inspired you can borrow
things
it can unlock certain things in you
there's going to be similarities but
your dna your blueprint your thumbnail
is uniquely yours
listen be yourself
because everyone else is taken
everyone else is taken figure out who it
is that you are
and be authentic and guess what your
tribe your people your supporters
your
everybody
will begin to line up and those people
who aren't supposed to be there those
people who are trolling those people who
really want to see you fail like you
have those people in your life they're
haters
they because once you start making
progress
they get jealous
because they feel like they deserve what
you have
your platform and they will expose
themselves
they will expose themselves they will
comment on your post and try to correct
you
they will inbox people who comment on
your stuff
you'll post something
and somebody said man that resonates
really deep in my heart and your haters
will inbox them and say hey i see you
commented on true seekers post uh i just
want you to know that he's a false
prophet and that he believes in this and
that and i'm gonna show you the proof
it's like they didn't even post it on
the on the co on the comment section
they inbox that person i knew people
that inboxed everybody on my friends
list to try to expose me and send them
like
hate mail and try to get people to
unfollow me
and uh
and then i sat down and had a
conversation with that person and they
told me actually other people showed me
screenshots i was like dude that's weird
why would you do that and it wasn't
until after a conversation with the
person they're like oh now i see where
you're coming from
man and they went and inboxed everybody
that they originally inboxed and said
you know what i was wrong about truth
seeker he's a stand-up guy
you know you got people who want to
sabotage you you got haters in your life
and uh and and the more that you
be true to your authentic self
the more that you'll see them
come out lash out but that's good
because they they get dealt with they
either get corrected they get humbled
or they you cut them off and they leave
you know keep those people riding your
coattail
trying to hijack your platform listen it
happens
it happens
because they're jealous they're jealous
and and it happens and i mentioned being
jealous you know i even use that word
envious
jealous
you know we hear that and it's
automatically that negative connotation
especially the way i just used it with
haters
um i was jealous of the tattoo artist
who gets to wake up
every day and man make 500 a day drawing
pictures on people's arms
more than that in some cases like a
thousand dollars a day 2 000 like they
make a lot of money depends on how hard
they want to work i know guys who
they they make you know 700 a day just
to do one tattoo and they're through for
the day they literally work three hours
and they're done
you know and but they love it so part of
me was envious and jealous of that of
seeing that with these tattoo artists
but what happens in that place of
jealousy
man i want to do that
okay what do you do do you self sabotage
do you start
emailing their clients and say hey my
friend does better tattoo work go see my
friend do you discount them or do you
say you know what what is it in my life
that i need to do to live in my bliss
where i can wake up every day and love
my job love what i i do for a living and
create it and so that was there there
was a crossroads there was a precipice
that you have to come to for me like i
said it was a tattoo artist it was
listening to
certain podcasters it was
seeing healers who get to wake up and do
sessions and coaching sessions and reiki
sessions and
and and
they do it for a living
it's like man what the heck i would love
to do that
but you got to get clear
it's trial and error but i want you to
know that all things
are possible
for them that believe
that if you believe nothing shall by any
means be impossible unto you what do you
have to do you got to believe it
you got to believe it
and you got to convince yourself
there's affirmations there's guided
meditations there's finding
finding people in your niche who are
already doing it
like if you want to be a pastor
if you want to go you know be a youth
leader
find you a youth leader
you know
you may not
fit in you may need to pick something
different but you got to get clear on
what it is you want to create
and i'm passionate about this this is my
story i'm thankful
it's gratitude in everything
starting small moving out
i'm thankful for my heartbeat i'm
thankful for my breath
i'm thankful for my wife i'm thankful
for my children i'm thankful for my
haters because they bring out they bring
things out of me that my friends who
that aren't gonna bring out
so let's get clear on it
let's get clear on what you want to do
what you want to bring to the to the
table
and yes
we will start ghettomeditations.com
myself and richie
we will do ghetto meditations
until we can get clear i'm joking
but i mean listen i created meditations
that are next level they're the next
level
the ad that you heard earlier in this
podcast for that meditation like
yeah
nobody can do what what i did
it can be copied
but it's not
it's not that
it's something spectacular
that because i said yes
i was able to bless so many people
with that experience
and it's not just a
a guided meditation where you're
leading people with the voice like my
meditations have sound effects my
meditations have voice actors
you're in a you're in the trance and an
angel comes to you and the angel isn't
true seeker's voice uh ghetto true
seeker
it's it's a
it's a
a paid voice actor
with majestic music
and the stars and sound effects and like
fully immersive
next level if you haven't checked it out
make sure you check out my meditations i
put a lot of work into them and
just reading the comments just reading
the uh
um
the reviews that i got back from people
total strangers
total strangers i put ad revenue behind
it
i put facebook ads on this meditation
people put in their email address and
get it for free and people who don't
know me from adam
are coming back in tears with their
lives transformed from something because
i said yes
because i said yes i got i got over my
field fear of failure
the egoic mind says don't do it man
don't do it
there's not a market for it
you suck at it let other people do it
stay elaine you're a rapper you talk
ghetto for a reason that helps with your
rap music it's not going to help with
your meditations listen whatever
whatever it is that you want to create
man you do it unique
and special unto you
you you're not a you're not a copycat
you're not a
cheap imitation of somebody else what
you have to offer is unique
every single one of you
look for your opportunity and use what
it is that you have right now the trees
that god has given you use cut them down
build something out of it
and you know you'll notice that if
you're faithful
with the things that are in your
immediate
vicinity if you're faithful with it the
scriptures which are universal law to me
god says that if you're faithful with
the few things
i'll make you ruler over more
i've given you this and this
use that to the best of your ability
but i don't have an expensive microphone
all the cool podcasters have this 400
500 microphone the same one joe rogan's
got the same one true secret guys listen
use that cheap microphone
until you get an audience until you get
ad revenue until you get whatever it is
that you can afford learn that program
learn that microphone use it to the best
of your ability and i can i guarantee
you the universe god
creatively even the synapses in your
brain will hook things together to teach
you how to make a way out of no way it's
what he does
be faithful with the few things the
small things
you'll be rewarded
to be the ruler over more
but if you're not going to be faithful
with with the small audience if you're
not going to be faithful with
uh you know the the income and and
money that you have
what makes you think you're going to be
faithful and and do the right thing when
you have more when you have more renown
when you have more influence
listen it's one thing to start it
everybody can start especially right now
everybody has a podcast this is uh this
is even like a running joke in hollywood
and on television it's like we don't
need no more podcasts please don't start
another podcast everyone has podcasts uh
don't start another one it's a joke
because there's fictional characters
that have podcasts that are recorded and
you know and so everybody has one and
especially because of where we are now
and people working from home is the
right time to start a podcast but now
the you know the market is saturated
because everyone has one
everybody can start one
but not everyone
can continue
that podcast
consistency is key you're gonna hear
that from me
it's not he who starts the race is he
who finishes it
you can come off that off that uh
uh starting line
and and beat everybody out the gate
man you could be
10 pesos 20 paces ahead of the next
person and you could be smoking them
but because the race is a a bit longer
you got to be in it for the long haul
and just because everybody can start a
podcast
not everybody can finish
they start f they do five episodes ah
nobody's listening
i'm done i'm gonna start this
i'm writing a book
you start your book you find out how
much work that is
ah
i'm gonna do this and you never finish
any of those beautiful creative ideas
that you had
bible talks about like if you put your
hand to the plow and look back
that that you're not worthy of it anyway
because you doubted yourself and looked
back i started a podcast but
finish it man anybody can start it not
everybody can finish it
consistency is key keep showing up
i'm over 400 almost 440 episodes into
this podcast and i've been doing it
for well over 10 years
i've come a long way
and yeah there were times where i wasn't
consistent
but you you can't look back over the
last five years and say i wasn't we're
doing two three four shows a week every
week showing up
and i don't always feel like it
that bliss in that gratitude ain't
always there
man i gotta do another interview man we
just did one last night oh man ghetto
true seeker comes out hey man we just
did one last night you feel me i gotta
do another one
so that
that's like the little devil true seeker
on my shoulders ghetto the other one's
real polite well spoken the angel
you got one on each shoulder but uh
you know consistency is key
you can do it god is not a respecter of
persons there's no reason why i can do
it there's no reason why why teal swan
can do it why joe dispenza can do it
yeah well he was a heart doctor he no
listen
ain't no reason
these people are borrowing each other's
work and just regurgitating it and
changing the packaging
this is most of the stuff that these
guys are teaching you was ancient stuff
this stuff been around for tens of
thousands of years
they just put a new a new bow on top of
it
they present it
a different way
and that's it your presentation
same info
different presentation
and so make them fall in love with your
presentation
make them fall in love with with the way
you do things why because can't nobody
do it like you
you need some some motivation man
you need some encouragement
because you could do
it especially right now
with the state of the world and a lot of
people are giving up hope
they've lost their purpose they don't
there's no certainty
in the future for them they don't know
what's going to happen tomorrow and yeah
but listen you was never promised
tomorrow
you was never given certainty
ever
i took a shower last night like it was
storming lightning it could have got
struck it could have been the end of
truth seeker
i know that was never promised tomorrow
that's that's since day one and you
you the problem is you think you have
more time so you don't act on it today
and so you procrastinate
well i'm gonna do it tomorrow i'm gonna
do it next week i'm gonna save up money
for that good that good microphone then
i'm gonna start my podcast
i'm gonna i'm gonna wait until i can get
a feature with so and so and then i'm
gonna start
rapping um
and
put out a rap album but i need to get
truesig on the album i need to get
so-and-so on the album and if i don't
you got to build your own name you got
to put yourself out there
why because i haven't invited you to my
table
what is that that's my podcast that's my
album that's anything that i create
that's my table
but i would i will if i see you doing
your thing and i see that you're focused
let's talk about it let's get on the
podcast this isn't the biggest podcast
you don't need to be joe rogan
you don't need to be
you don't even need to compete with that
you just need to find
consistency
and shine your light burn with a passion
for what it is that you do and people
will come
tune in and watch from all over the
world to come and watch you burn
for your passion
and the way that you do things because
nobody can do them like you
you don't need
10 you don't even need tens of thousand
thousands of views
by you you just need to be consistent
and you define your audience
and create an offer create something put
ads on what you're doing it don't take
that much y'all
it ain't that far outside of your reach
at all by any means like people have
given up hoping it and they've quit
they've given up on on this stuff now
but now is the time for you to kick it
into
to full speed like so many people had so
much time off from their work and being
out doing labor they got um
you know government assistance or
whatever to to be able to work from home
for a little bit and free time
and you didn't take advantage of it
you could have started but you were
chilling
you didn't take advantage of it
well
now you can
take advantage of it
every free moment that you got whatever
it is that you want to create bring it
to the table
because nobody's going to do it for you
but you
create your table
and then you get to invite people
to it
the people
that wouldn't invite you to theirs
find the others find the ones who
who have something beautiful to offer
but they don't have a platform
you know and i do look for people i do
look for opportunities to to work with
others and
and to
to give somebody a chance you know um
because i did have some people here and
there who did it for me
but uh wasn't a lot
so i don't owe nobody nothing but i
definitely want to pay that forward
because i identified it in my life
and i want people to continue to pay it
forward on their way up
when they burst something
when they get a platform don't get
snooty
be us foreign no more
sharing is caring ladies and gentlemen
i hope that helps listen a few more
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lisa patterson says
so true i love your motivation i need
direction i'm a reiki master and play
singing bowls i just don't know where to
start
i even have all the expensive things
direction and motivation
very interested in your course brother
awesome
you would benefit
tremendously from it because you already
have the stuff so there is no blockages
but you know just like i know that we
again we keep creating the uh the
blockages in our own mind like we're
like okay when i get the singing bowls
i'm gonna start
when i learn reiki when i get certified
i'm going to start i tell people listen
you don't even have to learn any of that
and get started right now and i'm i
teach modalities that are very simple
that we all can do
uh but
and so now you're you're a reiki master
and you have the singing bowls
but then there's another another
we keep projecting outside of ourselves
of like we need something else well i
need to wait till i get a website
and i i be clear with you like in in my
program i have those students
you know who we like we eliminate all
the excuses like i said
hold on you need a website listen i'll
help you oh wait well now i'm waiting
for this the good microphone and the
light
okay we'll get that but then you notice
that pattern hold on you just keep
creating reasons why not to we got to
identify that and nullify that lie
because you just keep making that you're
not confident you think you're you're
scared that your mom's gonna see you
going live doing reiki sessions on
facebook and you're like oh your boss at
your current job's gonna see you
you know what i'm saying so there's
always these we gotta get to the uh the
bottom of why you keep making excuses
and it what it is you got to cross that
bridge
i know trust me
it's still you know
when you launch anything any any creator
for the for the for the most part like
uh you're gonna you're still gonna be
scared when you launch something new
i don't care what it is
um but you get over it
and you launch it and then there's a
confidence that comes after you do it
and so again when whenever
wendy was talking about
um the different
you know things that
prohibit us and it could be something
else
like the reason you're not making money
manifesting
your
your job or your healing
course or
whatever it is it's because you won't go
live on facebook
all you have to do is go live and
everybody will be notified about what
you're doing
and those who are
led
to mostly benefit from what you have to
offer specifically they're going to
reach out but you those people aren't
going to know it because you still you
have fear of rejection
and it's not even rejection from
strangers it's rejection from
mom
it's rejection from
i messed around and added my third grade
teacher
on facebook and i don't want them to see
me
doing reiki sessions on the internet but
i guarantee you that once you get over
that and you go live in those groups
where people are
looking for that stuff
that where there's
hundreds of thousands or tens of
thousands of people it don't even have
to be that many but the people that
resonate with what you're doing the
moment that you step out and go live
those people are gonna see your work and
they're gonna book sessions with you
i have friends and people in my circle
people i've been mentoring for years
and i can't tell you the joy it brought
me when i saw them go live for the first
time and just
what they have to offer they're just
being them they're they're authentic
they're different but i seen them live
and i got
oh my god he's
finally he's doing it oh my god and i'm
watching hey bro and then like
he's got his link to his website or to
his paypal like whatever you got you use
what you got until you get the other
stuff
and they're booking sessions with people
and they're doing like
i want to do 20 sessions i want to do 20
sessions at
at 25 before i move up like everybody
has their thing that they want to do to
prove themselves to get good or whatever
and to see students
launch and step out for the first time
is amazing
amazing first guy who did a uh
the program with me good friend of mine
he launched
and then he launched a quick
package afterwards
and uh
you know my the program's not cheap i
work with people but
my program at this point is
right right under a thousand dollars for
eight weeks and
he launched and as soon as he got done
he put out
personalized meditations
like hey let me let me talk to you and
see what it is that you need and he's
taking notes
let me get back with you he wouldn't
even do the meditation live with them
that's what i do like i take notes and i
teach that and then we go through a
meditation then we go through a prayer
then we go to a release and a binding
and a loosing and whatever modality you
want to add
but he's like let me get back with you
so he records the meditation and sends
it to him and he was doing these
detailed meditations for people for like
anywhere from 300 to 500 and then he
launched a coaching a coaching package
that's
i mean just out the gate i mean no
social proof no validity it's like hey i
do tarot readings
and i don't want to take jabs at my
friend but he just started out and he
just didn't know what he was doing
but he did it
he did it
and he was convinced in his head it it
worked
me saw him like i don't i don't know if
that's really what that means i'm
analytical but it was working
like people are booking sessions with
this guy he launched a 2500 package
and he sold like two or three of them
like right after my package was only a
thousand and then we send him out there
he launches he's doing all of these
things boom is just taking off
and there was no reason why
he should
other than the fact that he wanted to
and he trained himself to himself and he
said yes
like come on
and there's a lot of other people who
did the same thing
and uh
i love it
i love it and guess what
i'm the same way
you know i have coaches and people that
i work with who are levels ahead of me
and uh
who charge 20 000 for a program i just
tell you that
who charge
uh
1200 for a session
you know like
and they get it
they get it because they ask it
hey this is what i charge like if you
want to work with me like i can help you
succeed and bring you up to my level but
this is what i charge and people pay it
people pay it
and so i i worked something out with
with one of my coaches and
um i got clear i said hey man let me
this is my program what do i need to do
am i missing anything which what are we
going to get the most benefit from how
can we reach the most people how do we
get people to sign up let's i picked
this brain
and so when i stepped out and launched
my program i know he felt the same way
man look at him
he said yes he launched it i know he's
nervous
i know he's nervous i was
i never i never released something that
that uh
you know cost that much all of my offers
have been 10 20 offers
so to jump up to like a 800 or a
thousand dollar offers like
that's all the reasons why i shouldn't
and i had to get more healing
i had to get more clarity
well i know i know most people in my
circle they can't afford that
they can't afford that well can they
afford payments wow hold on we can work
out a payment plan
the ones who really want it that's the
only ones i want anyway
i don't want somebody to come and take
it and them not be serious and even
though i get money no just
do something that we'll take somebody
else's program like we got to get
results because i don't need you out
there bad mouthing i don't need you out
there saying well it didn't really work
and i tried what he said it didn't know
there's no reason
if this worked for me god is not any
respecter of persons there's no reason
why it shouldn't work for you
the system works
if you work it any of them
any modality will work if you work them
if you're true to it that's the only way
that it'll work
listen aa works for people who are
struggling with alcohol addiction
but not everybody
why
it's for the people who work it the
people who stay consistent with it the
people who keep showing up and they take
it serious it works 100
christianity works
for people religious systems work
schisms and
needing to be told what to do and and
when to do it like people need help
and it works for the people who work it
for other people that don't
well what i was looking for islam worked
for me
i gave my life to
islam i gave my life to spirituality and
it worked you got to figure out which
one you want what modality
what practice
and work it stick with it god is not a
respecter of persons no reason why
should work for me and it doesn't work
for you
so
um
i will say that with with my programs
and stuff
a lot of what i talked about today is in
the program so for people who can't
afford it they can't even afford
payments or whatever but they want to
get in on it listen that's what this
podcast is about
you got to listen to all my podcasts but
i guarantee you somewhere
in those 430-something episodes you're
going to hear
an interview where i interviewed a reiki
master and it opened and i
perked up about how i push and pull and
deal with energy
you're gonna hear an interview where we
talked about the power of the mind and
the power of the the imagination where
we talked about the law of attraction
and getting clear on what it is that you
want to do i've got all of this stuff
mapped out to take you
through the program
but for those who can't it's in those
episodes go back and listen to
an episode on diet go listen to an
episode on the fear of failure that's
430 episodes and and with a lot of
people a lot of things that i learned
from people who are
masters and experts and what they bring
to the table
and that's what it takes
find somebody who's already doing it and
get with them and pick their brain
it's really that simple
like why would you go talk to somebody
else who isn't doing it and you're
getting advice from them
it's like people who get marriage advice
from people who are single
or people get financial advice from
somebody who's always broke
or you get religious or spiritual advice
from somebody who's always depressed and
struggling no
get out of here
i want to go i want that person around
me i want to pick that person's brain
who is always even though the world is
going to hell around them
they stayed optimistic
in in in
you know the economic state of the world
they be they they begin to make more
money hold on you're making more money
podcasts became more popular
and it's overcrowded but you're making
more money on your podcast you're
getting more listeners
hold on
let's talk
those people are out there
find out what you want to be doing
find out how to do it how to bring it
into the to your table
and if you can't build your own table
nobody's going to do it for you
i know i'm speaking to somebody there's
not even a guess
it's not i'm not even making an
assessment i know
that my words are not falling upon death
ears
and i'm just here to encourage you
to say yes
trust the process
so with that i'm gonna say peace and
shalom we are
ending
this
episode
um love you guys here if you have any
questions about my program listen reach
out to me if you have any questions
about anything
reach out to me
i am a hop skip and a jump away i love
to connect with people
and um this is what i do and hopefully
you'll pay that forward so with that i'm
saying peace and shalom we're gonna do
it again listen we'll have i think i
have four podcasts lined up this week we
did one
monday night
tuesday
um i believe we have wednesday and
thursday there may be more i know i'm
booked up a lot this week so we got like
four episodes with some really
awesome guests and so for those of you
who want to catch the live streams who
are listening on the podcasting apps yes
that's where the biggest audience is we
don't have a lot of people watching the
live streams but i love the aesthetic i
love cameras i love lighting i love
being able to see my guests i love
intros and screen change i love all that
and if i do that just for me it is what
it is i understand that there's a lot of
people listening on the podcast apps who
don't get to see all of the cool stuff
that goes into
doing one of these episodes but if
you're listening on the podcasting apps
as well god bless you but make it to a
live stream come in and watch a live
video and just see what it looks like we
put a lot of work into this with that
i'ma say peace and shalom love each and
every one of you guys check out my
website truthseeker.com for all of the
upcoming events and retreats that we got
going on that course is there the path
of the healer which launches in uh two
weeks from now so if you want to be a
part of that make sure you sign up and
uh we'll do it again very soon peace and
shalom love you guys bye bye
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